"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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seek&destroy

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A girl I'm dealing with will be hospitalized over the weekend. She was diagnosed with a blod clot in her brain. I sent her a text saying I'm here for her if she needs anything. What can I do to let her know that I care? I was just starting to like this girl (after the last fiasco...) and then this happens...we were hitting it off very well too. I feel like sh!t just thinking about it! It eats me alive...I can't take it. I know that this could turn out to be serious...
What do I do guys? Should I ask her what hospital she will be staying at and go and visit her?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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blueline

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wtf, if she's your friend, go fucking visit her.
 
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No you should definitely play it cool and not go see her, that way as she's dying she'll be thinking about how much she wants to have sex with you

Pretty sure serious illness trumps acting suave. At this point forget everything you've learned and be there for her.
 
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