pinhas said:
What did you do when she said no? Did you push for it during the same conversation or invited her again on a later one?
of course! same conversation, but I didn't say "please lets hang out, pretty please." I changed the topic slightly, and basically asked the same question in a different context, being playful and not really caring what'd she say.
Now, after hooking up with her, I can't get this girl to go away. She's been texting me everyday this week about random **** , and I'm showering right now to go over to her place and **** her some more in about an hour.
Went from complete stranger to this girl that chases me. This is how I did it: I made my physical attraction to her evident from the start (never verbally, I never said anything that could be construed as a cheesy pickup line or coming on to her, no compliments etc.), but I physically touched her a lot, teased her, played with her. I always acted like I could just walk away at any second and I wouldn't give two ****s.
Then every time she texted me, I ignored her, or sent back six word texts. When I finally did see her and got her alone, I went straight for it and hooked up with her. THus, in the back of her mind, she knows, if I get her alone somewhere, somethings going to go down. Then I ignored her some more. Can't get this girl to go away now.
oh, and about my looks, I'm probably about a 6/10, I have some obvious defects. But you know what, it doesn't matter! Really!!!! What matters more is the person you make yourself out to be.
So this is for all you AFC's, all the average guys out there, because I am one myself. Just look at it all like a procedure, like a checklist of things you have to do in order to get the girl and it will work. 1. just start talking to her about whatever. 2. look her straight in the eyes. 3. touch her at any opportunity you can 4. ignore 5. isolate. 6 **** 7. ignore
It's not rocket science, don't pay attention to the words that come out of her mouth, pay attention to her actions.
Now go forth brothers, and have yourselves some fun this weekend.