I have been seeing this girl I met at a club for the last 4-5 weeks. We hit it off from day one, and I have had a lot of fun with her. Things have been progressing quite nicely, but her interest levels are almost impossible to read.
She is a player. Big time. She gets off on the game, to the point where it actually gets annoying at times. Phones left off for a whole day sometimes, returns calls 2 days later, cancels the odd date, ignores the phone occasionally.
The strange thing is that for some reason, the last two or three times we have gone out, she has been complaining that I dont show enough interest in her. She says most men lose the plot when they really like a girl, and would phone 6-7 times a day, turn up unanounced at her place, do almost anything to intiate contact. She considers this a proper chase!
On all these occasions I asked if shes looking for a man or a stalker. The last time she brought it up I also told her that I think she gets off on that type of attention, and if she thinks I am going to buckle into that garbarge she has another thing comming. I have only known her for little over a month. SHes not the be all and end all of my life. I know once I show complete interest in her, shes probably going to run like the wind. At the moment, I feel like I am a bit of a challenge for her, and thats that. There is just no drive from her at all, unless I dont call for a few days.
The scary thing is that she is acting like a high school girl, and at 23 I expect better than this from her. I really do like her, but Im not sure if I should show a bit more patience, stick to my guns and keep doing things the way I normally do, or just tell her to take a hike.
She is a player. Big time. She gets off on the game, to the point where it actually gets annoying at times. Phones left off for a whole day sometimes, returns calls 2 days later, cancels the odd date, ignores the phone occasionally.
The strange thing is that for some reason, the last two or three times we have gone out, she has been complaining that I dont show enough interest in her. She says most men lose the plot when they really like a girl, and would phone 6-7 times a day, turn up unanounced at her place, do almost anything to intiate contact. She considers this a proper chase!
On all these occasions I asked if shes looking for a man or a stalker. The last time she brought it up I also told her that I think she gets off on that type of attention, and if she thinks I am going to buckle into that garbarge she has another thing comming. I have only known her for little over a month. SHes not the be all and end all of my life. I know once I show complete interest in her, shes probably going to run like the wind. At the moment, I feel like I am a bit of a challenge for her, and thats that. There is just no drive from her at all, unless I dont call for a few days.
The scary thing is that she is acting like a high school girl, and at 23 I expect better than this from her. I really do like her, but Im not sure if I should show a bit more patience, stick to my guns and keep doing things the way I normally do, or just tell her to take a hike.