"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

A Field Report - Co-Worker

sylvester the cat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2012
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
98
This is to highlight how easy it should be to go from IOI to lay as well as giving me the opportunity to feel momentarily superior to those of you not getting any at the moment. :)

Was very reluctant to do this as she is a co-worker but I felt like some intimate human contact so:

1) On her way out I ask her what her favorite movie is. She mentions a movie.
2) I tell her to come round that evening to watch it. She asks what time. (Right here I know it's on) I tell her 22:00. She complies and leaves.
3) I didn't fancy spending money that night plus I further wanted to test her complicity so texted her 'don't forget to bring the wine'. She replies 'red or white'? I reply 'both'.
4) She turns up. Wine is poured. I sit on the bed, she sits on an armchair. (I live in a studio). I let her do most of the talking whilst I figure how to get her from the armchair to the bed.
5) I'm relaxed with the wine and point out her painted toe nails. I take her hand and look at her fingernails which are painted too. I gently pull her towards me telling her she would be more comfortable lying by my side. She complies.
6) From here it is simply one small step from playing footsie to leaning in for the kiss.
7) From the kiss it's clothes off, insertion and game over.
8) She very considerately leaves to go home once finished.

There were no obstacles during this exercise. She was totally complicit highlighting how a girl behaves if she is into you.
 
Last edited:

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

TheCWord

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 10, 2013
Messages
873
Reaction score
63
Nicely done. Please update us as to whether or not your work situation becomes complete hell.
 

sylvester the cat

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 30, 2012
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
98
TheCWord said:
Nicely done. Please update us as to whether or not your work situation becomes complete hell.
My work situation already being hell I figured it couldn't get any worse. But yes, I'll let you know if it does. :yes:
 

_sideways_

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 31, 2013
Messages
1,919
Reaction score
218
In before skinny says that European girls are easier than Cali girls lol


seriously, good going...

that's the only way to do co workers. No texts or emails that can be traced to you. Just flat out on the table..."come over and chill..." the rest is nobodies business.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Top