Heizen
Senior Don Juan
In my recent shenanigans, I have discovered a few little things that can help you improve your game. Some are in the DJ bible, but I am restating them as they are good tips.
1) AIM=Bad. Not so much using aim, but talking ALOT to girls who are not in the friend zone, is bad. Be online as little as possible, and dont IM girls as soon as you get online, if at all. Let them talk to you. Dont respond to their messages right away, wait a few seconds.
2)Eye contact with a new mark=good. Cannot stress this enough. Dont be afraid to maintain contact through entire sentences, and when they are talking, make more eye contact.
****You can tell it is working because if you break eye contact and look, say to your right, she will follow your gaze and look in the same direction, either consciously or subconsciously.
3)Ask questions. This was refered to in one post as 'nouning'. In just about every sentence she says, there are nouns you can ask questions about.
Her: "So, I go to *Westfield*"
You:"Westfield? How is that school?"
It works like that.
4)The number close isnt everything. If you know you are going to be seeing her again, dont be afraid to let her go and get her number later. I do this in school, and ask the next day. Then it gives them a day to think about the conversation we had. If you dont know when you will see her again though, try for a number close.
5)A good closing, if you feel your date is going well, is to close by hugging, and kissing her forehead. If she doesnt feel like kissing, she will get a kiss on the forehead and that will be that; Its a good sign of affection. If she wants more, SHE will make the move to meet you halfway. Its a good closing if you arnt sure how your date went, and its very easy to read what she is doing.
Well, thats it for now. Pending furture adventures there will be more tips to come
1) AIM=Bad. Not so much using aim, but talking ALOT to girls who are not in the friend zone, is bad. Be online as little as possible, and dont IM girls as soon as you get online, if at all. Let them talk to you. Dont respond to their messages right away, wait a few seconds.
2)Eye contact with a new mark=good. Cannot stress this enough. Dont be afraid to maintain contact through entire sentences, and when they are talking, make more eye contact.
****You can tell it is working because if you break eye contact and look, say to your right, she will follow your gaze and look in the same direction, either consciously or subconsciously.
3)Ask questions. This was refered to in one post as 'nouning'. In just about every sentence she says, there are nouns you can ask questions about.
Her: "So, I go to *Westfield*"
You:"Westfield? How is that school?"
It works like that.
4)The number close isnt everything. If you know you are going to be seeing her again, dont be afraid to let her go and get her number later. I do this in school, and ask the next day. Then it gives them a day to think about the conversation we had. If you dont know when you will see her again though, try for a number close.
5)A good closing, if you feel your date is going well, is to close by hugging, and kissing her forehead. If she doesnt feel like kissing, she will get a kiss on the forehead and that will be that; Its a good sign of affection. If she wants more, SHE will make the move to meet you halfway. Its a good closing if you arnt sure how your date went, and its very easy to read what she is doing.
Well, thats it for now. Pending furture adventures there will be more tips to come
