"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A few questions i have

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So i got 2 questions. Most of the girls that i talk to at school don't have no classes with me at all, sometimes i see them coming out of a class at a certain time. So say its dismal time, I get out of class and i know what class the girl is in so i go there and wait for her to come out the room to chat with her, would that be creepy meeting her outside of her class like that. Because i have to be consistent into talking to these girls but how can i do this if i never see them. Another thing is, would it be a good idea to number close early with girls i don't see much. some people say i should number close after talking to a girl for a few weeks or getting to know the girl better(showing her what i have to offer). But how can i do that if i never see her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just a quick number close..or even better get her email..
yeh man waiting outside for her is creepy and you usually get more nervous..and the feeling is usually worse then watever you're afriad of..eg. rejection
 
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yes and yes, number close and that is "creepy meeting"
 
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