"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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a few questions from a noob

DrD77

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So i have been dating this girl for about a month and a half now. she's really the first girl that i've ever dated. i am also a virgin and shes the first girl i've ever kissed and made out with. i've tried to go further with her before but she wouldn't let me take her shirt off. then another night i tried to finger her but she wouldn't let me do that either.

Anyway, shes really shy and expresses deep interest in me otherwise. should i be worried that she won't let me have sex with her after this long or just keep it cool? it bothers me a little cause i would like to have sex with her soon.

Also, any ideas on where to have sex when u live with your parents? i live in the basement but everytime she is over here they are home. i figure i'll just try and have sex even though they are home. any tips, and maybe this is the reason she wouldn't let me go further is because my parents are here? help.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sodbuster

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depends on how her experience level is. The first piece of pie is the hardest to get out. The last one, you can just eat it in the pan,slide the spatula in in any direction and put it on the plate,whatever.

If she's a virgin too, it may be awhile yet. YOu may need to take an hour to get her top off. If she's done the whole football team,after the first hour you should be on seconds.
 

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You have to get her super horny. Girls' sexuality works a little different from guys. Guys see a hot girl and they're ready to go. A lot of girls need more stoking....especially virgins.

Build up comfort with the other stages first. Then you have to slowly keep escalating, then back off. So for example, kiss her all over, tenderly feel her up and then work your way down town. But then back off and go back up. Keep doing this repeatedly.

You keep escalating to the verge of sex, and then back off. You do this several times and she'll be the one begging you to escalate it. It takes some patience but it's worth it. If you REALLY want to make her horny, don't give up the sex as soon as she asks for it. Make HER wait. When you finally give it to her, she'll fvck like a wild animal.
 
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