"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A few ladies and how to setup these first meets

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I have eleven ladies, no single moms, late 20's early 30's wanting to setup dates to meet. I didn't think all would agree, so now I have am having trouble spacing them out. I have two down for this weekend, but still need to work on the other nine. It's not possible to set them up on one or two days as they are all over CT and NY. How do I buy time into next week and weekend without coming across as a prick or d!ck?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I have eleven ladies, no single moms, late 20's early 30's wanting to setup dates to meet. I didn't think all would agree, so now I have am having trouble spacing them out. I have two down for this weekend, but still need to work on the other nine. It's not possible to set them up on one or two days as they are all over CT and NY. How do I buy time into next week and weekend without coming across as a prick or d!ck?
How do you even have time to talk to 11 women at the same time? Do you not have a job or any recreational activities outside of dating?
 

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After they give you their #, text them this:

"Hey, it's Rick from Bumble. It was very nice chatting with you today. I'm saving your number in my phone and will be in touch very soon :)"

That's it. They are now on ice. When you are ready for a date, then you reach out.
 

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After they give you their #, text them this:

"Hey, it's Rick from Bumble. It was very nice chatting with you today. I'm saving your number in my phone and will be in touch very soon :)"

That's it. They are now on ice. When you are ready for a date, then you reach out.
After I get their number on Bumble, I just tell them I'll hit you up in a few. I should text them as well and say the above?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If you plan on disappearing for more than a week on an OLD girl, I would. I get a greater retention rate with that text.
 
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