"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A few field reports as College continues

LuisGarcia10

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Another week has passed and a few more promising developments and just a couple of tactics I've tryed out, sometimes just to amuse myself.

First of all I'll give you a quick field report of me in a club last night:

There's a very good looking girl at my old school who's joined this year. I was out with my mates from my old school and she was out with them. My mates, mostly total AFC's, give this girl everything she wants. She was there dancing with them all individually, each of them thinking that they were getting somewhere only to be rejected.

Naturally her typical attention hoe behaviour annoyed me, now usually in this situation I'd have DJ'd her a bit but it was too loud so I decided to leave it. She then finishes her drink and goes up to my mate and puts it in his shirt pocket and he actually allows her to do this! That broke the camels back so I picked up the bottle from the floor, walked up to her(bearing in mind I've never actually spoken to her before), tapped her on the shoulder and said:

"Excuse me this is yours"

*she shakes her head and turns away so I tap her on the shoulder again*

"This is definately your bottle, I just saw you put it in my mates pocket"

She then takes the bottle off me and goes and puts it on the bar:D As I say, normally I'd have used that first impression to DJ her but it was way too loud in there to do anything.

Anyway, back to College.

There's 6 or 7 girls that I'm paticually interested in, I'll start with an incident that occured a few hours ago:

Her:I think ciggarettes are the only thing that keep me going
Me:Why's that?
Her:Well I'm not getting any sex, I wish some boy would just offer me some.

Now obviously that can't be taken as a definate come on but after looking at it again it does seem somewhat that way. She's gone on for how she wants a boyfreind several times as well, bearing in mind I've only known her a few weeks.

Now moving onto a different girl who I've always been pleasant to but she never really said that much. I met up with her in Subway for lunch with a couple other freinds and then saw her after College on Wednesday, since then she's been far more freindly and speaks to me whenever she sees me.

Back onto last night, I met a girl outside of a nightclub and got talking. I (stupidly) told her my age and when I went for the number she said I'm too young, I said
"I'm good looking and so are you so are you so what's the problem?"

She said she knows that but I'm still too young, still the rejection didn't hurt in the slightest and it's nice to keep buliding up experience.

Anyway, just thought I'd bless you all with a couple of incidents of mine for the past week. I'm paticually proud of making that girl put the bottle on the bar, she probably thinks I'm an idiot but there must be at least a part of her that wonders why I'm not willing to bend over backwards for her like everyone else.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alen-Delon

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okey you didnt bless me much but anyway. not bad for the first week of college. lil input of mine. second week of college, fuking busy as hell lots of HW. But it doesnt stop from macking hoez. went to first party of the year, met few chicks got numbers but, nothing much. Then Wed's day two days ago, i went to club fuking wasted, hooked up with this chick who was pretty fuking hot as it turns out next morning, but she says she has BF who lives in the next town which is couple hours away. big deal like i give Shyt. anyway, i think best place to meet chicks is Partys, clubs, and librarys. why librarys cause their so isolated and bored in there theyr just dying to talk to someone and maybe even get a date. Now Its friday i aint got no job aint got no shyt to do. what am i to do but go hola at some HOEZ.

P.S i recomend yo all do the same

Peace
 

JJMcLure

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Originally posted by LuisGarcia10

Her:Well I'm not getting any sex, I wish some boy would just offer me some.

Now obviously that can't be taken as a definate come on but after looking at it again it does seem somewhat that way. She's gone on for how she wants a boyfreind several times as well, bearing in mind I've only known her a few weeks.
This is quite an obvious hint. She is either an attention wh0re or is looking to hook up. Make a move soon, or someone else will beat you to it.


Back onto last night, I met a girl outside of a nightclub and got talking. I (stupidly) told her my age and when I went for the number she said I'm too young, I said
"I'm good looking and so are you so are you so what's the problem?"

She said she knows that but I'm still too young, still the rejection didn't hurt in the slightest and it's nice to keep buliding up experience.
Chicks go to clubs to have fun that night, they're not usually in the frame to set up something for another time.

Here, you were talking to her logical mind - but reasoning with her like that won't work. Chicks respond to their emotions, so you need to get her FEELING it's right for the two of you to hook up.

Keep up the good work, it's always good to see someone getting in the field with real chicks, rather than chatting over IM or just spouting theory here.
 

LuisGarcia10

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She is either an attention wh0re or is looking to hook up
Definately not an attention *****, I've made sure of that.

To be honest she's been nicer to me than I have to her, buying me stuff and giving me ciggys etc.

Anyway, we'll see how it goes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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