"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A fatherless generation....

Solomon

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A few weeks ago I read this post that there are more babies being born now, then durning the baby boom era, however a major difference is that single mothers are up by like a gazillion percent.

It saddens me man, personally, because women aren't meant to raise men, that's a fathers job, a women can instill love in a man, but it's the fathers job to give him discipline/direction and guidance. The problem with this coming generation is lot of men won't know how to be men, and the feminzation to make all guys into "Raymonds" (everybody loves ray) is a major issue.

I could go on and on

But **** is ****ed up!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hughman said:
Don't need to talk down to me dude. Maybe i didn't explain myself properly, but its essentially my mom has the balls in their relationship (always cussing him, throwing things, you name it, and threatens that if he fights back she'll just leave him : / )

I love both of my parents, and yes I do take certain things off my dad. I like to think I'm real laid-back (unfortunately this went into an extreme with relationships - expecting others to do the work, initiate yadda yadda, you know the drill). I still plan to be laid-back, probably more so as I have no need to stress about what other think of me, and being indifferent is useful, but I also need some balls.
I apologize for the tone, but its the truth. The thing is though I live in a city where the guys expect to be treated like kings or babied for basically doing nothing. They think just because they got something swinging between their legs they're men. But when they get some woman pregnant, they complain about how the system has it for them. It does, believe me, a guy has to be careful where he does his thing. I see you're taking it more from a dating standpoint though, so I'll step off the soapbox.
 

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guywhoneedshelp said:
I have zero kids...(that I know of)
Yeah, I always check my mailbox twice a day and open my email real slow on the week leading up to Father's Day.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dear Solomen,
Isn't that interesting,are the statistics separated by race?It will be interesting to be around in 16 years or so and see this reflected in a crime wave.
 

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Solomon said:
A few weeks ago I read this post that there are more babies being born now, then durning the baby boom era, however a major difference is that single mothers are up by like a gazillion percent.

It saddens me man, personally, because women aren't meant to raise men, that's a fathers job, a women can instill love in a man, but it's the fathers job to give him discipline/direction and guidance. The problem with this coming generation is lot of men won't know how to be men, and the feminzation to make all guys into "Raymonds" (everybody loves ray) is a major issue.

I could go on and on

But **** is ****ed up!!
It couldn't be better, is what I'm thinking.

Make sure YOUR kid is raised properly and he'll have all the easy pickings he wants, surrounded by men raised by women as competition.

See the bright side in all situations.
 

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Yeah, it's no coincidence that me and 4 of my closest friends had a rough learning curve with women. We all came from fatherless homes. In fact, 3 of them are brothers who all have different fathers, I think their mother even came on to me one time, but that's another story.
 

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a fatherless generation...check this out.....this is your true look at the future of your grandchildren and greatgrans.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencet...s-discover-turn-womens-bone-marrow-sperm.html

ritish scientists are ready to turn female bone marrow into sperm, cutting men out of the process of creating life.

The breakthrough paves the way for lesbian couples to have children that are biologically their own.

Gay men could follow suit by using the technique to make eggs from male bone marrow.

Researchers at Newcastle upon Tyne University say their technique will help lead to new treatments for infertility.

But critics warn that it sidelines men and raises the prospect of babies being born through entirely artificial means.

The research centres around stem cells - the body's 'mother' cells which can turn into any other type of cell.

According to New Scientist magazine, the scientists want to take stem cells from a woman donor's bone marrow and transform them into sperm through the use of special chemicals and vitamins.

Newcastle professor Karim Nayernia has applied for permission to carry out the work and is ready to start the experiments within two months.
 

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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