"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Fantasy Of Mine

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Think about this. Guys of course can go to the gym, dress nice, etc. Right? They are however bound, for the most part, on their natural good gooks. Women however have makeup, hair coloring, salons, heels, designer jeans, boob jobs, lipstick and all that stuff. If they are a turd, they can be polished in other words. For 90 days, I would like to see them all wipe that sh!t off their faces, close the salons, put a moritorium on plastic surgery and make them go totally natural. Then we'll just see how they BEHAVE and how they look! What do you guys think would happen if this were the case?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Then sexually frustrated guys like you would find another reason to hate women.
 

ChalengeGuyFan

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J. Darko said:
Then sexually frustrated guys like you would find another reason to hate women.
Grammar question:
Which is the correct version in such a sentence:
a) like you
b) like yourself
?

Thanks a bunch!
 

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ChalengeGuyFan said:
Grammar question:
Which is the correct version in such a sentence:
a) like you
b) like yourself
?

Thanks a bunch!
If talking about one person: "Then A sexually frustrated guy like YOURSELF"

Multiple: "Then sexually frustrated guys like YOURSELVES"
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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