"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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A famous example of the result of hitting the wall plus an edonistic life style

Who Dares Win

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This is the singer kesha, I was used to hear her at parties in my early 20s (late 00s) and only recently heard her first song so decided to have a look at her now...damn she lost points.

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I'm not saying that men dont change with time but if you make the same with most actors moving from their early 20 to their early 30s, you'll notice that no similar drop in look and shape happens, many of them even look better in their early 30s than in their early 20s.

While I dont believe at all about fairy tales of men growing their SMV in their 40s and 50s, its undeniable how time is much more generous for men in our young adulthood.

No man in his sane mind should marry in his 20s with a girl of the same age, we see girls like her despite the money and her work ageing so bad, let alone a normal girl partying as common today.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Women tend to peak physically in their early 20s. After that, it's usually downhill unless they take extremely good care of themselves.

Men reach their peaks in their 30s-40s (not necessarily physically but they can maintain their physical selves much easier than women).

So yes, you're right.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm not saying that men dont change with time but if you make the same with most actors moving from their early 20 to their early 30s, you'll notice that no similar drop in look and shape happens, many of them even look better in their early 30s than in their early 20s.
This is because men are still PHYSICALLY developing into their 30s too. A lot of guy still have baby fat on their face in their 20s that doesn’t stay until they start to fill out their frame even more in their late twenties/thirties. Plus, men just age better in general.
 

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While I dont believe at all about fairy tales of men growing their SMV in their 40s and 50s
Believe it. It's true.

Women don't go for snowflakes or "men" without $ or goals, which in my experience encompasses 80-90% of most 20-30 something males out there right now. I've never had an easier time dating women/girls 15, 20, and in one case 25 years younger than me. They all just want a man who's successful, has some $, property, game, is fun, and fit. It's easy as f*uck getting these chicks to cheat on their p*ussy boyfriends. It should be illegal.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
While I dont believe at all about fairy tales of men growing their SMV in their 40s and 50s ...
Come to my world and tell me that.
 
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Believe it. It's true.

Women don't go for snowflakes or "men" without $ or goals, which in my experience encompasses 80-90% of most 20-30 something males out there right now. I've never had an easier time dating women/girls 15, 20, and in one case 25 years younger than me. They all just want a man who's successful, has some $, property, game, is fun, and fit. It's easy as f*uck getting these chicks to cheat on their p*ussy boyfriends. It should be illegal.
Dash,

Do you think I'm good looking enough as long as I have some money (that I wouldn't want to give to them)?

https://www.dropbox.com/s/ufos10or929yqb9/Patrick (32 of 38).jpg?dl=0
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Patrick, you can barely talk to them
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Only women over 40 worth banging is Salma Hayek.
 

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Yes such a thing does exist and men can have the upper hand in the dating game IF they play their cards right. Let's dispel the notion that just because you turn 35 you are going to be getting dates left and right with younger women...not so at all. You will have to have worked on yourself and become successful in all the areas of your life in order for this to happen. We know men and women go for different things - men value youth and beauty while women look for resources - so use that to your advantage. Too much emphasis is put on "game" when it just amounts to a bunch of tap dancing at the end of the day. If you focus on your life and become successful you won't even care or have to try because women naturally seek successful men. Women break all the "rules" when they come across a man of value. If you are attractive in her eyes for whatever reason you don't even need to have all that much game - we see countless examples of this all the time.
 

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Jlo is still looking quite good at 48. My childhood crush. Porn wasn't as accessible in my youth so usually the "lets get loud" video clip did the trick.
 
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As for Kesha: a nose job doesn't mean sh1t if you get fat.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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