"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I did not ype this I REAPET I DID NOT TYPE THIS OR AFFILIATED WITH THIS PERSON SO GIVE CREDIT TO JOSH

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October 12
So what does it mean to be a good man?

Guys, Read Carefully!



1) To walk right up to any woman and strike up a conversation even if it means rejection. A good man doesn't hesitate and feel sorry for himself if he gets rejected because good men are strong. That's one of the most important characteristics that make a good man who he is!

2) He is confident in every way. He stands by what he believes to be true and maintains his values.

3) He knows how to treat a lady well, but he isn't a pushover.

4) He is proud, but not too proud to freak out over a relationship.

5) He doesn't feel sorry for himself. He is strong, and strong men don't have time for that crap!

6) He gets off his computer and boldly gets the women he desires! He doesn't worry about being the best looking guy out there, or having the most cash, or being the most popular guy on the planet. He just does what he needs to do, plain and simple.



So remember, the next time you feel down about yourself because you claim to be a good guy, yet you don't have a woman. If you really were such a good guy, you wouldn't be depressing about the whole idea of being single in the first place.



Now Visit www.sosuave.com !!

And dont ask me why i've put this on here... I think everyone should open their eyes and ears to advice like this!



Josh

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This can be found at http://spaces.msn.com/members/joshualcooke/PersonalSpace.aspx?_c=
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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big shour to JOSH, the man possibly behind the invention of CAPS

I'd add on an ammendment to the 6th item...

"plain and simple."

remove off the "."

insert

", without overcomplicating by thinking too much about ONE thing"

Be it a girl, guy, comment, problem.... there will forever be somebody who faces the same problem on a slightly different level somewhere out there.
 
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