"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Don Juan

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The following denotes aspects of Don Juan as I see him.

He:

 Has Confidence – strong believe in self and abilities no matter what
 Is A Challenge – spontaneous and mysterious
 Posses The Right Attitude – “I am the prize”
 Is Patient – believes that he will succeed no matter how bad it looks
 Is Persistent/Determined – doesn’t give up in hard times
 Embraces Sexuality - does not apologise for his actions nor does he regret them
 Is Physically Fit – works out and eats good food
 Is Playful – fun loving, ****y and funny, witty, and a goofball at times
 Is Very Social - people naturally come to him
 Is a Rare Commodity – has a distinct style to doing things
 Has Healthy Hygiene – is neat and free of negatives
 Is Quite Assertive – strands for what he believes and never backs down
 Is Goal Filled – has things he wants to be done
 Is Adaptive – appropriately responsive to changes
 Has Self Control – capable of directing will
 Is Understanding – knows what’s going on
 Is Decisive – able to read people and situations well
 Follows Instinct – natural ability to act/react or not
 Is Knowledgeable - knows the facts of many different things
 Is Focused and Deliberate - able to easily allocate oncentration and attention
 Is Smart – a wise decision maker
 Is passionate – loves what he does
 Is Genuine – is direct and honest
 Is Positive – sees the good in everything
 Understands and controls his emotions
 Is Motivated – has inspiration ingrained in his thoughts

Well this is a Don Juan to me. And I encourage you guys to add the qualities you think he should have.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The Bat

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Christian Bale from 3:10 to Yuma, and Brad Pitt from Fight Club, I think, are good examples. You can see almost all qualities you've listed in these actors' characters in those movies.
 

Enryu

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nooo bad the bat
movie characters are never good role models! dont even think about it!
life is not a bollywood movie
and ppl in movies are no djs not even their characters!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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