A DJing Refinement - smart girls

[iqqi]

Originally posted by Don Ronny
Seems like all a guy has to do to get your attention is talk badly about you or just challenge your sanity.

ahahahahahah, that is actually pretty funny.

see, i agree, and i acknowledged you!!!

but things aren't always how they SEEM.

 

[Don Ronny]

You assume too much ix

I never said I was offended. I just said I would take your advice in stride because you women talk one way and act another. If anything YOU are the one getting defensive here. You could have just ignored my comment but NOOOO, ya just had to defend your precious reputation in front of a bunch of anonymous internet users, didnt ya?

Go ahead and prove me wrong by not responding here, but you know you cant help it. I can envision you twitchin in front fo your keyboard, trying not to hit the "reply" button.

Hahaha! Talk about someone taking themselves too seriously!

Lighten up you big pile of PMS

 

[Don Ronny]

Ahh I didnt read your second post there. Glad you can laugh at your own crazy ass.

 

[Wyldfire]

Welcome to Ronny and iggy's pissing contest.

So when are you getting married?

 

[bp1974]

You've stumbled into my territory and now I'm interested.

Originally posted by Wyldfire
You can talk about sex with smart women, but you need to be clever, witty and be able to use symbolism and innuendo to turn her on. If you want to stimulate women like this your best bet is to attempt to stimulate them intellectually and sexually at the same time. Men who do this well and the smart woman is also physically attracted to him...well, he'll have her totally entralled in everything he says. Unfortunately, men like that are a rarity.

Originally posted by iqqi
as is this. if you can't stimulate my mind then you probaly won't have a chance at stimulating anything else. some men will NEVER get this. [/B]

I'm learning how to turn a woman on through conversation, and it seems that sometimes innuendo and symbolism work, and sometimes outright raw sex talk works. I've been involved with a woman for a couple of months now and it all started with me talking about sexiness in a very oblique way with her. See here for details of what I said to her. I must admit, I'm no longer happy with the tone I used in that email. I don't look at sexual relations as a series of techniques anymore, it's just about being real.

So anyway, things have progressed with her, and now I notice that I can drive her wild much better when I'm just plain short and raw (eg. I'm busy at work. I'll write later. I'd love to be f*cking you right now.) than when I use allusive language. It's as though the poetical words got her interested enough to make a move on me, but now we're involved she just wants to hear it raw. Does that sound familiar? I guess every woman's different but I'm curious about this. Maybe it's about mixing it up, and in a couple of weeks I'll change to a different style, and that'll work for her. Is it all about the newness, or is there a natural progression from poetic/allusive to downright dirty?

Your comments are appreciated.