"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A DJ likes to be proved wrong.

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Don't believe me?

You can test yourself...

Go to your mother and tell her you can lift the house over your head with one finger... GOOOO!!!! If your mother isn't home, or hasn't been home in a long time, find somebody else. Even a damned stranger will do the trick.

Most strangers enjoy the feeling of BEING RIGHT. So if a DJ is proven wrong, than there is always an opposite party.

Prove me wrong... if your smart enough.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CrystalGem

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Jake said these forums were going to pot.
Everyone grab a cigar, it's cleanup time.
 
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Nighthawk

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Stackthestyles said:
Most strangers enjoy the feeling of BEING RIGHT.
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Just something funny about that line.

200 posts, half of them new threads, within a couple of weeks of joining is not a good advert for you, and is irritating for everyone else. (Especially those of us who have watched our own wise, insightful and pertinent FR thread slide slowly off the main page. Ahem.)
 
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Tomatoes

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Well im a DJ and I ALWAYS want to be right. I hate being corrected.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ORTIZ SANCHEZ

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i dont think chicks like being prooved right they might just think "**** i told him bit he didint belive me"
 
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