A different way of meeting women and getting them to like you. Basically you...

[Masculinity]

Build rapport with the girl and then start your seduction from there (instead of cold approaching and an immediate approval or rejection). This is something a friend of mine who is massively successful with women mentioned to me recently.

There is a girl in my class with whom I am coupled to work on a project for seven weeks. She's attractive, fun, and friendly. Since the beginning, I have kept the interaction away from "we're just team members." I've playfully smacked the in the butt, carried her over my shoulder, teased her, etc. In the past, I have not had a problem with telling a woman I find her cute in a cold approach. However, for some strange and silly reason, I don't know how to do it once I've known the girl for longer (i.e., "social circle game"). You can say I am the opposite of what regular guys experience (better at pulling girls from cold approaching than social circle game). We see each other consistently. She waits around for me, is receptive to my kino and jokes, and answers texts immediately. Basically, all the good signs are there. I just need a small push to success.

I feel this is a very simply fix; it is just inexperience with this approach that is keeping me from pulling my move. If you have been in a the same or similar situation. Or if you have not experienced this, but have something constructive to say I would appreciate to hear your feedback!

If something reasonable is posted I WILL carry it out and update the forum with either a failure or a success story.

 

[JohnChops]

Example:

Cold approach: hey I'm John (small talk for a minute) what's your number?

Rapport building then asking : (example a girl in a class) talk to her, get to know her a bit, number and ask out.

Makes sense since you'll be more comfortable this way and lessen rejection by a lot.

 

[VladPatton]

All I'm gonna say is: do something soon before you're in the friendzone and meeting her new boyfriend.

 

[Odisseo]

Make good use of your time in college because you won't have nearly as many chances to use this approach once you're out

 

[PlayHer Man]

I'm going to be harsh --> The more neutral time you spend "getting to know" a woman before attempting to f*ck her.. the more of a faggot you are (beta).

Notice I said "attempting to" --> This means making sexual intentions CLEAR and allowing the woman to make a decision if she wants to go in that direction with you. Any friends first approach is gay, cowardly and feminine... just another way of trying to side-step rejection and manipulate a woman into liking you.

LISTEN.. women KNOW you want to f*ck them. Its just a question of how much you have to "prove yourself" before trying. The more time spent "proving yourself" the lower your value and confidence in relation to her value (perceived).

Would you "build rapport" with a fatty? Of course not.. your value is higher than hers. See where I'm going with this?

Pedestalization. Cut it out.

 

[skinnyguy]

Some guys on this forum only care about fvcking *****s.
Those guys will do the stereotypical PUA stuff to get in a girls pants cause they have the maturity of a 13 year old.

If you want quality, building rapport is a good idea. It will be less superficial and will be less likely to end in a rejection. It won't end up in you banging the girl and never talking again. You'll bang her and she will actually want more.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Some guys on this forum only care about fvcking *****s.
Those guys will do the stereotypical PUA stuff to get in a girls pants cause they have the maturity of a 13 year old.

If you want quality, building rapport is a good idea. It will be less superficial and will be less likely to end in a rejection. It won't end up in you banging the girl and never talking again. You'll bang her and she will actually want more.

:crackup: :crackup:

Skinnyguy.. if you're such an expert on finding "quality" then why haven't you?

Some guys on this site have little dating, sexual and relationship experience and just regurgitate sh!t they read in books. Some guys sit around feeling lonely and upset they don't have a woman.. then try to give advice to other guys.

Those guys are faggots and should not be taken seriously.

 

[skinnyguy]

:crackup: :crackup:

Skinnyguy.. if you're such an expert on finding "quality" then why haven't you?

Some guys on this site have little dating, sexual and relationship experience and just regurgitate sh!t they read in books. Some guys sit around feeling lonely and upset they don't have a woman.. then try to give advice to other guys.

Those guys are faggots and should not be taken seriously.

Well that's very simple. I have high standards.

Good luck finding a girl to be your doormat.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Well that's very simple. I have high standards.

Good luck finding a girl to be your doormat.

Good luck having high standards with low value.

Skinnyguy wants a 2014 Lamborghini.. but he only has $500 bucks and bad credit.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

If he is lucky enough to find this "golden vagina" he dreams of.. I bet money he will get epic oneitis and turn into a whipped faggot. Then she will dump him and he'll be back on SoSuave whining about his feelings.

See you soon Skinnyguy

 

[Dgwizdal]

Lmao at the above. Sex first, worry about the rest later. That's half the battle. There's no one saying you cant build a LTR/Rapport related agenda after. You will be in an infinitely better position to take the relationship wherever you want once you get the p*ssy. Period. 1-5 interactions to make a move or you'll be reporting live from the friendzone. And if you're already there, stop doing what you're doing and make her chase to build her interest and tension. Stop being her buddy immediately and then up the ante. That's your only card.

 

[_sideways_]

I'm going to be harsh --> The more neutral time you spend "getting to know" a woman before attempting to f*ck her.. the more of a faggot you are (beta).

Notice I said "attempting to" --> This means making sexual intentions CLEAR and allowing the woman to make a decision if she wants to go in that direction with you. Any friends first approach is gay, cowardly and feminine... just another way of trying to side-step rejection and manipulate a woman into liking you.

LISTEN.. women KNOW you want to f*ck them. Its just a question of how much you have to "prove yourself" before trying. The more time spent "proving yourself" the lower your value and confidence in relation to her value (perceived).

Would you "build rapport" with a fatty? Of course not.. your value is higher than hers. See where I'm going with this?

Pedestalization. Cut it out.

Have to agree with this....its harsh but probably worth taking stock into this advice....at least until one feels comfortable enough in the game to not ask for advice....be your own compass in life....

 

[NewJack]

Guys react to this post as if it matters what you do. It doesn't.

Please don't imagine you have some great control of the situation here, and that it hinges on you deciding to make this or that move, or act this or that way, or do this or that thing. It doesn't.

She already knows what she wants from you. One clear statement of romantic intention or attraction is all that is needed from you. Her response will indicate whether she wants to proceed. There is no way to flub it, because its already decided (in her mind). You just want her to express a decision she already made. It doesn't hinge on technique or action. It hinges on a desire she feels inside and already knows about.

 

[Masculinity]

Thanks for the good responses, guys.

Sounds like I am simply going to deliver it direct style. Either she will be interested or not.

If she is, cool. If not...right on to the next one. I will update.

 

[YAboi]

invite her over , touch her casually and naturally and go for a kiss after some conversation.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Guys react to this post as if it matters what you do. It doesn't.

Please don't imagine you have some great control of the situation here, and that it hinges on you deciding to make this or that move, or act this or that way, or do this or that thing. It doesn't.

She already knows what she wants from you. One clear statement of romantic intention or attraction is all that is needed from you. Her response will indicate whether she wants to proceed. There is no way to flub it, because its already decided (in her mind). You just want her to express a decision she already made. It doesn't hinge on technique or action. It hinges on a desire she feels inside and already knows about.

+1 rep

This is why I say a man should live on HIS TERMS at all times possible.

Until men understand every woman is a coin flip they'll stay beta forever. I say it all the time --> Be BOLD because she either likes you or she doesn't. Hoop jumping is a waste of time, energy and money.

If a woman is attracted to you already, "neutral" time with her will only lower her attraction and give her time to reconsider if you're even worth f*cking. Then a DTF girl becomes a BFF.. ALL because you were too timid and faggoty to make a move. :nono:

Neutral time is auditioning for her approval. The only time this is acceptable is when you haven't decided if SHE is worth f*cking... but then why are you even talking to her?

Pound her at the first opportunity with no apologies. Then the ball is in your court.

Be bold guys. Time is precious.

 

[Masculinity]

Update

I saw HB during class on Wednesday, but I had way too much homework to be thinking about her. Come Friday, however, I took a different approach. While doing homework, she has gotten very talkative telling me about herself and asking questions. It turns out that she loves buffalo sauce, so I sent her a picture with four bottles of sauce at my place:

R: Admit you're envious, haha [PIC]
HB: I don't have one drop of hot sauce in this apartment haha
R: If you play your cards right, maybe you'll get to visit.

She did not write back, but when we got to class (also today) she opened me with conversation. She was very receptive, paying attention to me. Both of us had little sleep last night because of homework, so I told her to come with me and leave class; she agreed. As we were walking, we began talking about some random topic, which tends to happen a lot. She is the kind a person with whom you can have a nice conversation with, regardless of the topic.
This is when I delivered my message:

[Random conversation about food transcends into sauce and then me]

R: You know, when we first met I remember thinking to myself "this girl seems alright, but she's not really my cup of tea"
HB: Eyes wide open
R: But as we started getting work together, I thought to myself "this girl and I have fun doing homework...and also she is kind of cute.
HB: Haha, really, why did you think that? (the neg)
R: You are just kind of a weird girl (oh yes I did)
HB: Really? I don't think I am But I did warm up to you a lot since. I feel very comfortable around you. And you warmed up to me.
R: Mmm...nah
HB: You did warm up to me!
R: Maybe a little (hugged her)
HB: Smiles
R: We should hangout together sometime
HB: For sure!
R: There's a sushi place I know...blah blah and we part ways!

Obviously I'm not "taking her out." Instead, we are probably going to end up playing air hocker or going dancing somewhere. Make the move guys! The worse she can say is no...and if she does it's her loss. I will update as more info becomes available.

Not reporting from the Friendzone,

-R

 

[Masculinity]

Update on this thread

All I'm gonna say is: do something soon before you're in the friendzone and meeting her new boyfriend.

Something along this lines happened. I made my move, but it turns out I have not had time to go out with her because of schoolwork. Legitimately, I have 101 things to do. Anyway, while talking today I invited her to hangout now that I have a little more time. She said, "hmm...maybe. I went out on a date last Friday and I like the guy." I responded with "well...it sounds like you need an upgrade and that's where I come in." She laughed, but I doubt this will go anywhere. It was bad timing and my unfamiliarity with the so called "social game."

Lesson learned: Approach and make your moves or perish.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

Something along this lines happened. I made my move, but it turns out I have not had time to go out with her because of schoolwork. Legitimately, I have 101 things to do. Anyway, while talking today I invited her to hangout now that I have a little more time. She said, "hmm...maybe. I went out on a date last Friday and I like the guy." I responded with "well...it sounds like you need an upgrade and that's where I come in." She laughed, but I doubt this will go anywhere. It was bad timing and my unfamiliarity with the so called "social game."

Lesson learned: Approach and make your moves or perish.

Robyn!!! You should invited her to your place when you were walking with her. That was your chance to bang her. You spent a lot of time warming up the friendzone. Cut the small talk and ESCALATE, FLIRT, etc. use sexual communication. It's very difficult to escalate when you don't start off right in the beginning.

You could have had her in the bag. The only other thing was that you were trying for rapport and making your ****y funny negs, etc too direct. You needed to play the catch more. Don't show verbal interest too much.

 

[YAboi]

You could have had her in the bag. The only other thing was that you were trying for rapport and making your ****y funny negs, etc too direct. You needed to play the catch more. Don't show verbal interest too much.

See bolded @Robyn

 

[Masculinity]

Robyn!!! You should invited her to your place when you were walking with her. It's very difficult to escalate when you don't start off right in the beginning. You needed to play the catch more. Don't show verbal interest too much.

I think it was a combination of these. I could not invite her over because I literally did not have time to have sex; trust, I know it sounds crazy, but so is my schedule. I am applying for a doctorate program soon and cannot let my grades slip--especially for a girl.

I'd like to try something new in playing the catch. What are some things you guys do to get this done?