"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A different aspect of the co-worker thing

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DiSt0rTi0n_07

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Ok, I know that dating ur co-workers is a definite NO; I am NOT POSTING A REPEAT OF THAT TOPIC. However, I do come across some hot co-workers at my job occasionally, so here's my question:

Would u be anything with hot co-workers such as f***buddies? No emotional relationship, just friends who f***. If no, would u even be friends outside of work with hot co-workers?

It seems that I ALWAYS manage to get girls attracted to me at work. I'm guessing that this is because I treat them like the other guys that work there, they don't get any special treatment (if anything, I just get them doing the harder areas within the job due to my seniority:p), and I am always C+F naturally. We work im pairs so I guess that also contributes. Anyways, yeah. Any stories or comments? All is appreciated.

Thx

P.S.
If this has been posted on somewhere and I missed it, my bad.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Friends is about all you can swing with co-workers.

The only time I have ever seen anything other than friends work is if one of the people involved quits soon after.

Other than that it just seems to get messy in my experience. Especially if you are senior to them in any way, just not a good idea. I have seen too many people fired, beat up, quit, exploited and arrested to think it is anything but a BAD idea

Silver lining is: Hot co-workers generally have hot friends. Which means if you are friends with co-workers, you have a gateway to a talent pool of other HB's.
 
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No, that doesn't work sadly.
If you become that female workers 'friend' you are instantly labelled as 'friend' by all her friends.
Then much horror, screaming and frustration begins on your part.
(I already tried this)

OR

They try and set you up with the lowliest ranking member of their group who cannot get themselves a man.

Now I let this slide once because I was shown a photo of the most gorgeous blonde I had ever seen. Great looks, great jugs, great body.
She walked through the door :rockon:
...but then she smiled :eek:
...she had the worst teeth I have ever seen.
Think 'Austin Powers'
 
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