"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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A different aspect of the co-worker thing

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DiSt0rTi0n_07

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Ok, I know that dating ur co-workers is a definite NO; I am NOT POSTING A REPEAT OF THAT TOPIC. However, I do come across some hot co-workers at my job occasionally, so here's my question:

Would u be anything with hot co-workers such as f***buddies? No emotional relationship, just friends who f***. If no, would u even be friends outside of work with hot co-workers?

It seems that I ALWAYS manage to get girls attracted to me at work. I'm guessing that this is because I treat them like the other guys that work there, they don't get any special treatment (if anything, I just get them doing the harder areas within the job due to my seniority:p), and I am always C+F naturally. We work im pairs so I guess that also contributes. Anyways, yeah. Any stories or comments? All is appreciated.

Thx

P.S.
If this has been posted on somewhere and I missed it, my bad.
 

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Friends is about all you can swing with co-workers.

The only time I have ever seen anything other than friends work is if one of the people involved quits soon after.

Other than that it just seems to get messy in my experience. Especially if you are senior to them in any way, just not a good idea. I have seen too many people fired, beat up, quit, exploited and arrested to think it is anything but a BAD idea

Silver lining is: Hot co-workers generally have hot friends. Which means if you are friends with co-workers, you have a gateway to a talent pool of other HB's.
 
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No, that doesn't work sadly.
If you become that female workers 'friend' you are instantly labelled as 'friend' by all her friends.
Then much horror, screaming and frustration begins on your part.
(I already tried this)

OR

They try and set you up with the lowliest ranking member of their group who cannot get themselves a man.

Now I let this slide once because I was shown a photo of the most gorgeous blonde I had ever seen. Great looks, great jugs, great body.
She walked through the door :rockon:
...but then she smiled :eek:
...she had the worst teeth I have ever seen.
Think 'Austin Powers'
 
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