"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A delicate situation!

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Ok here's the deal. On my floor at my dorm we are flooded with hot girls. The other day I decided to just swallow my guts and introduce myself to the 2nd hottest girl and It turns out she like best friends with one my boys girl. I chilled in her room with her twice and got her number. but yesterday I kinda felt like I bothered her too much cus I gave her something I borrowed from her back and texted her if she had some medicine. So know I feel as if I should leave her alone for a day or two to see if she'll hit me up or not. I also forgot to mention that I always have her laughing. Does this sound like a good idea??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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and1play5 said:
Ok here's the deal. On my floor at my dorm we are flooded with hot girls. The other day I decided to just swallow my guts and introduce myself to the 2nd hottest girl and It turns out she like best friends with one my boys girl. I chilled in her room with her twice and got her number. but yesterday I kinda felt like I bothered her too much cus I gave her something I borrowed from her back and texted her if she had some medicine. So know I feel as if I should leave her alone for a day or two to see if she'll hit me up or not. I also forgot to mention that I always have her laughing. Does this sound like a good idea??
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Well you better take her out pretty soon somewhere or you're going to get into the "friend zone" pretty quickly I think, and even then its easy to screw it up unless you know what you're doing. Just don't spend too much time in her room unless you're making out or f-ing her, otherwise she'll feel you're "always in her room" and it'll come across as needy or something.
 
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and1play5 said:
good lookin fam, anymore insight??
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Read the fvcking bible. How's that sound?

The situation isn't delicate at all. You are already reading into it too much, you care too much about her already, you met her a few nights ago and you are already sweating about whether you are bothering her too much or not.

You're still AFC.

Read the bible, it will do you good.
 
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