A decent woman has become extremely hard to find

[CaptainSaveAh0]

Stop being so judgmental. It's not helping.

I didn't judge at all. Just stated the truth. Ironic enough that your name is the truth yet you cannot recognize it when it is spoken.

If you live your life making excuses for things, you will not go anywhere in life. To me this just sounds like a grand excuse. When I am not having success at something I decipher what I am doing wrong and what I can do better, then I put those thoughts into action.

If every time I failed I told myself an excuse to cheer myself up then I will never achieve the greatness I should be achieving. Self respect as the OP is trying to preach is not built with excuses , its actually built with the opposite.

For example:

I go up to a woman at the bar, get rejected, start moping around then tell myself I am too high class for her and she is low quality. Hooray I cheered myself up for about 10 seconds and now what? Has that helped me in approaching for the future? Have I figured out what I could have done different? Has that added helped build my confidence? The answer to all of the above is NO.

 

[TheTruth]

I didn't judge at all. Just stated the truth. Ironic enough that your name is the truth yet you cannot recognize it when it is spoken.

If you live your life making excuses for things, you will not go anywhere in life. To me this just sounds like a grand excuse. When I am not having success at something I decipher what I am doing wrong and what I can do better, then I put those thoughts into action.

If every time I failed I told myself an excuse to cheer myself up then I will never achieve the greatness I should be achieving. Self respect as the OP is trying to preach is not built with excuses , its actually built with the opposite.

For example:

I go up to a woman at the bar, get rejected, start moping around then tell myself I am too high class for her and she is low quality. Hooray I cheered myself up for about 10 seconds and now what? Has that helped me in approaching for the future? Have I figured out what I could have done different? Has that added helped build my confidence? The answer to all of the above is NO.

What your typing is not truth and I'm here to tell you your wrong. People make excuses all the time in life. Just because you do does not guarantee everytime you will become nothing in life. What you do to make yourself better might not work for the next person. Thinking just because you try hard at something it will automatically work out can lead to bad action down the road.

Self respect is built in your own mind. Plenty of SUCCESSFUL people failed at first. They did not move from there comfort zone and still became successful by what every your definition of it is.

For your example believing you did something wrong that needs to be fixed is exactly why i disagree. The next girl you talk to could just like your particular look and you could get a number/ get laid that night and It would not have caused for you changing something about yourself.

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

What your typing is not truth and I'm here to tell you your wrong. People make excuses all the time in life. Just because you do does not guarantee everytime you will become nothing in life. What you do to make yourself better might not work for the next person. Thinking just because you try hard at something it will automatically work out can lead to bad action down the road.

Self respect is built in your own mind. Plenty of SUCCESSFUL people failed at first. They did not move from there comfort zone and still became successful by what every your definition of it is.

For your example believing you did something wrong that needs to be fixed is exactly why i disagree. The next girl you talk to could just like your particular look and you could get a number/ get laid that night and It would not have caused for you changing something about yourself.

All i am saying is to lose that B1tch made and feeling sorry for yourself attitude so many guys have these days.

I never said you won't fail. Everyone fails all the time. Successful people fail more then non successful people because they take more chances. However,every failure is a learning experience, not a feel sorry for yourself and make an excuse experience.

And ya my example wasn't the best. Rejection by woman can be for endless reasons but my bottom line is do not make excuses and try to tell me there is no quality woman in this world, and if you feel this way ask yourself why? and figure it out.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Well to be honest there is no such thing as "the one" it just doesn't make any sense. Share bonds and experiences with many people. Relationships stunt growth in certain parts of peoples lives.