"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Date in 3 hours need some advice.

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I was approach by a girl and she gave me her number. She is cute and our first date was having a drink at a bar (she drank nothing). The second time we hung out we met at a bar for like an hour. Personally I am getting bad vibes, but she always texts always wants to hang out. Anyways tonight at 8:15 we are going frisbee golfing, that will go till about 9. Any ideas of what to do after, to isolate her. Or should I wait until the 4th time we hang out to make a hard move?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pimp-sicle

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This isn't a pre-planned event bro!

Your primary goal should be to go have fun and display traits that make her attracted to you. From there, its like taking candy from a baby, she'll want to kiss you, she'll make it easy to do so.

The fact that you have already gone out a few times and have not capitalized is a bad sign for you, but completely in your control to change.

C'mon man, she approached YOU! She is already telling she's interested, just don't do or say anything stupid and your in.




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You blew it with this girl by having "dates" where there is no physical action in the first place. You are too nice and too by the book, like a typical normal nice guy.

Next time, your "date" should consist of you inviting the girl over to your place (or going to her place), with her favorite kind of wine, a DVD of a comedy movie that you like and can make witty remarks about, and condoms.

Make sure the invitation for the date sounds as laid back and casual as possible, something along the lines of "hey you wanna hang out at your/my place have some drinks and watch a movie?" - if she says NO, then you already know that her intentions are to get some free drinks/dinner/bowling/pool out of you, and that she will be dancing around the issue of hooking up for longer than YOU would like. A cool girl who just wants to get to know you, and hook up if she likes what she sees, will 100% agree to that "date" suggestion.

This isn't some theory either - this is EXACTLY how I have been able to have sex with dozens and dozens of women over the past few years.
 
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