A couple thoughts/questions about games girls play

[cactus3178]

I was talking with a buddy of mine today about his ex, and I kind of wondered if anyone has been in a similar situation:


His g/f dumped him and calls him to f*ck with him all the time. Most of the time, he ignores it, but when she wants to come over for sex, he does it. This is a bad idea, right? I mean, what better way to tell your ex to stuff it just right back up her ass than to deny HER sex when she 'offers' (or rather uses it as a mind game type thing)?

It's quite obvious that she's using to control him and ultimately prolong the inevitable breakup process.


Anybody know what I mean?

 

[Paintballguy]

She is definately playing games, he should of just cut all contact with her instead of being desperate.

 

[WaterTiger]

Now Cactus....you know EXACTLY what you need to tell your friend. You are the "Saint of Escaping Evil, Controling, Soul-Sucking Women".

DUDE! Toxic B!tch Alert! She's using you for sex to only prove she still has power over you! She has no respect or interest in you. You are just a stupid puppy that comes when she calls. Have some freaking PRIDE! Dump the *****, don't take her calls, don't answer her e-mails...go out and find some one ELSE!

 

[cactus3178]

Haha, that's what I've told him several times, but he keeps going back for more.

 

[WaterTiger]

Then you can only wait until he realizes the bitter truth. She's using him for a warm-blooded dildo.

When he does realize it at last, remember you were in his shoes once and don't say "I TOLD you so!" Take him out for a beer & hook him up with some new chicks. Your field reports sound like you're a busy boy! Surely you can spare a few for him.

 

[david90]

I don't see anything wrong. He's getting laid. He should turn the table and see that he's using her for sex.

Tell your friend to enjoy being a boy-toy and keep it on the down low while he finds another relationship.

 

[CLOONEY]

WaterTiger, good advice. Cactus, r u talking about you or your "friend"? I really do hope you arent talking about yourself. If its your friend tell him what needs to be done, he prob wont do it until he realises it for himself after he hits rock bottom!

But like watertiger said, dont say I told you so, take him out for a big night big night!

 

[cactus3178]

Lol, not it's not me, I'm done with that sour b*tch for good. He has no problem hooking up with chicks, but anytime his ex g/f calls, he's like a whipped little b*tch. He won't listen to me. He could go hook up elsewhere, but it's like a baby's mama type thing. Oh well.

Anyhow, yeah, it's been a busy week for me I guess. Last night didn't go exactly as planned, but it'll be take 2 on Wednesday
and maybe some new ones this Friday and saturday. This is fun!

 

[xblitz44x]

I blame him, not her. He's bringing it on himself. She wants sex, so she's doing what she can to him to get it. He is the one who keeps beating himself up. If he had control of himself, he could either drop the sex all together and finally move on until he has closure. Or he'd be able to detach himself and realize that his relationship with her will never again be ideal and he can just enjoy the sex while it lasts and not get his emotions involved.

Personally, I wouldn't even listen to him bytch. If he starts bytching to me about it, I'd say: "It's your fault dude, you keep going to get kicked in the teeth". And if he keeps talking I'd just saying it. I hate people that thrive on the drama that they bring on themselves.

 

[xomel]

Why is everyone so anti-game on this board?

When girls play games, the answer is easy, play with them.

About two weeks ago a girl tried playing games with me, starting talking to random guys, trying to make me jealous. I said, "why are you talking to random guys? do you want me to talk to random girls?" She says "I dont care." Then I wittingly say, "Sure you dont, you are bad at pretending you dont like me."

I just outplayed her and started talking to more girls than guys. I got rejected 3 times. I held 2 conversations and pushed C+F the whole time. Shes never been playing those games ever since.

We all play our own games our selves. Girls do to and theres almost nothing you can do about it, except be an AFC and quit, be a DJ and not care, or be up for the fun and out play her.

 

[CLOONEY]

Re: Why is everyone so anti-game on this board?

Originally posted by xomel
When girls play games, the answer is easy, play with them.

About two weeks ago a girl tried playing games with me, starting talking to random guys, trying to make me jealous. I said, "why are you talking to random guys? do you want me to talk to random girls?" She says "I dont care." Then I wittingly say, "Sure you dont, you are bad at pretending you dont like me."

I just outplayed her and started talking to more girls than guys. I got rejected 3 times. I held 2 conversations and pushed C+F the whole time. Shes never been playing those games ever since.

We all play our own games our selves. Girls do to and theres almost nothing you can do about it, except be an AFC and quit, be a DJ and not care, or be up for the fun and out play her.

U are getting confused between playing games with your girlfriend or x and playing games with a girl who is not your girlfriend.

This site is not against game, what r u talking about? It is ALL ABOUT Game and playing with girls u just meet or dont know too well. When your girlfriend plays games, it is good to play them back to some extent, this makes the relationship more interesting and adds spice to it. However, when the guy is wipped and looses his sense of control after he falls in love, the game is over, only way to play it again is to play it with a new girl or detatch yourself (the latter of which is VERY hard to do, as any guy who has been in love and in a LTR (more than a few months) with a girl knows!

But like I say, he has to realise this himself! It is wierd cactus, because right now, nearly all my mates are single again. All have either dumped their girlfriends, and a couple have been seriously burnt by their girlfriends. I too am trying to help out my friends and help them meet ladies (infact we are all going to a party in a couple of hours)!! However, they dont listen to me, they have to learn the hard way I guess! They still talk to their girlfriends while their girlfriends are fukcing other guys!! Nyawys this party has 25 girls and we will be the only guys Should be fun and take their minds off their x hos for a while!