"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A couple things - jealousy / challenge ?

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matius

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A couple things that have been running through my mind.

Is it wrong if the girl you are seeing becomes friends with one of your friends/room mates. I think it's cool that they can get along but I can't help to feel a little annoyed about it.

How do you control jealous feelings?

I read somewhere that a competent, self-confident person could never feel jealousy in anything. I believe that and I want it to be true for me too.

Have you ever had a girl purposely test you by flirting and having 'more' fun with someone else why you were around? What might you do in this scenario?

How do you stay a challenge? What does it mean to be a challenge?

Does being a challenge mean just not letting a woman dominate/control you. Or does it mean not always being available. I'm not always available but I do hang out with my girl of 2.5 months quite a bit because I enjoy it and I think she does.

Any suggestions appreciated...!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Challenge means difficult to attain something.
it must be damn difficult for her to get you love her
it must be damn difficult for her to get your attention.
it must be damn difficult for her to get your time
it must be sweatingly difficult for her to get enough of you.
it must be sweatingly difficult for her to keep you around her.
it must be sweatingly difficult for her win you from all the women you have around you.
it must be sweatingly frustratingly difficult for her make you obey her.
it must be sweatingly difficult for her to control you and to convince that she is madly love in you.

This is just few of the example i think i can give you few more but want you to digest this much.
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Well, I think I understood like 1 or 2 of those tough guy. But I've been in this thing for 2.5 months and I've stopped seeing other girls...not for her, because I wanted to. I'd rather have a relationship then 'just date' this one.
 
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