A convo with this girl got me thinking (not an AIM convo)

[Potbelly]

I went out to eat with this girl I'm interested in two days ago. We're "friends" but not friend zone friends since I've never listened to her problems, wasn't a shoulder to cry on, etc.

so basically we're tlaking then we go to a park to sit down for a while. I sstart asking her what she wants to do and stuff because we're going off the college.

anyways, we get to the subject of me and I talk about how there were obstacles in my life and how I had to get through them even though people around me were jealous and did not like the change. I talk about what I did to change and basically i guess I gave off an air of independence. So she doesn't say anything and we talk a little more and separate to go home. before she goes home she says "by the way I don't think you can get through life alone. we all need someone"

lemme know what you think about what she said. maybe i'm reading too much into it? thanks guys.:cheer:

 

[Potbelly]

wow, Viper's pity thread baits everyone into commenting...mine gets 39 views and nothing...

seriously at least when you take the time to leave me a comment you know im gonna do something

^bump^

 

[True Wolf]

I think it may mean something, she may be making some sorta offer or something along those lines, but it's impossible to tell with the given info. Either way it's all about what you think about what she said, you have to live with you after all.

 

[KarmaSutra]

I went out to eat with this girl I'm interested in two days ago. We're "friends" but not friend zone friends since I've never listened to her problems, wasn't a shoulder to cry on, etc.

so basically we're tlaking then we go to a park to sit down for a while. I sstart asking her what she wants to do and stuff because we're going off the college.

anyways, we get to the subject of me and I talk about how there were obstacles in my life and how I had to get through them even though people around me were jealous and did not like the change. I talk about what I did to change and basically i guess I gave off an air of independence. So she doesn't say anything and we talk a little more and separate to go home. before she goes home she says "by the way I don't think you can get through life alone. we all need someone"

lemme know what you think about what she said. maybe i'm reading too much into it? thanks guys.:cheer:

To quote Rollo: "If you're not fvcking her you're her girlfriend." 'nuff said.

 

[Potbelly]

True Wolf, I agree. I think I am overanalyzing.

Karma...I dunno man. I think the prevailing notion on this board is that you gotta **** **** fvk, but I don't think so. Just because I'm not fvcking her doesn't mean I'm in the friend zone. But yeah I will keep that in mind as I get older.