"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A convo with this girl got me thinking (not an AIM convo)

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I went out to eat with this girl I'm interested in two days ago. We're "friends" but not friend zone friends since I've never listened to her problems, wasn't a shoulder to cry on, etc.

so basically we're tlaking then we go to a park to sit down for a while. I sstart asking her what she wants to do and stuff because we're going off the college.

anyways, we get to the subject of me and I talk about how there were obstacles in my life and how I had to get through them even though people around me were jealous and did not like the change. I talk about what I did to change and basically i guess I gave off an air of independence. So she doesn't say anything and we talk a little more and separate to go home. before she goes home she says "by the way I don't think you can get through life alone. we all need someone"

lemme know what you think about what she said. maybe i'm reading too much into it? thanks guys.:cheer:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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wow, Viper's pity thread baits everyone into commenting...mine gets 39 views and nothing...

seriously at least when you take the time to leave me a comment you know im gonna do something

^bump^
 

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I think it may mean something, she may be making some sorta offer or something along those lines, but it's impossible to tell with the given info. Either way it's all about what you think about what she said, you have to live with you after all.
 

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Potbelly said:
I went out to eat with this girl I'm interested in two days ago. We're "friends" but not friend zone friends since I've never listened to her problems, wasn't a shoulder to cry on, etc.

so basically we're tlaking then we go to a park to sit down for a while. I sstart asking her what she wants to do and stuff because we're going off the college.

anyways, we get to the subject of me and I talk about how there were obstacles in my life and how I had to get through them even though people around me were jealous and did not like the change. I talk about what I did to change and basically i guess I gave off an air of independence. So she doesn't say anything and we talk a little more and separate to go home. before she goes home she says "by the way I don't think you can get through life alone. we all need someone"

lemme know what you think about what she said. maybe i'm reading too much into it? thanks guys.:cheer:

To quote Rollo: "If you're not fvcking her you're her girlfriend." 'nuff said.
 

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True Wolf, I agree. I think I am overanalyzing.

Karma...I dunno man. I think the prevailing notion on this board is that you gotta **** **** fvk, but I don't think so. Just because I'm not fvcking her doesn't mean I'm in the friend zone. But yeah I will keep that in mind as I get older.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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