Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Where did you get that from? Women like "jerks" because they think they can change them...but they don't want guys with problems/issues..Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
Supposedly, women like guys who have problems because they want to be the ones who "help" you become a better guy.
You don't. You present yourself the way you want to present yourself depending on your objectives and how comfortable you are with it.Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
So how do you present yourself to a woman?
DING DING DING. You win the reward.Originally posted by JonJack
You don't. You present yourself the way you want to present yourself depending on your objectives and how comfortable you are with it.
For example, in Pook's article "Perfect is boring".Originally posted by \O/
Where did you get that from?
The objective would be to build attraction with her.Originally posted by jonjack
You don't. You present yourself the way you want to present yourself depending on your objectives and how comfortable you are with it.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
And when will that end? Are you talking about getting the girl to totally go oneitis on you or you're talking about getting her to just like you?Originally posted by I_Only_Live_Once
The objective would be to build attraction with her.