"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A Confident Man, Is a Man Who Will Suck Seed

diplomatic_lies

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I agree, sex isn't my main goal.

Ok, maybe because I'm still young



But anyway, I think that if at a young age, and with an assertive girl, you go too far with moves, you end up getting a slap to the face (I got one for touching my gf's breasts while making out for the 10 millionth time - lucky we made up again). Dunno if its true for anyone (and its certainly NOT true if shes a slut/gangster hardcore), but with the kind of girls I've gone for, its often true.


Maybe when I get into uni things might change.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by improvingdonjuan:
i agree to almost all but not the part that we need to impress the 9.99

HELL NO i say we need to nock them off their pedestal cause we are not lucky to fuk them THEY are the ones who should be thankful to be fuked by us the DJs cause great MEN like US are hard to find and they SHOULD impress us.

I RATHER GET KICKED IN THE NUTS THAN IMPRESS SOME 9.99 WHO THINKS SHE IS A GODESS. NEG HITS my friend is the key to this girls.

Damn right!

I don't care if this chick is a 9.99, I'm a 10.00 along with everybody else here, so this chick should thank her lucky stars that I'm even giving her the time of day.

There's gonna be no a$$ kissing going on here.
 

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I was scared of the Suck Seed when I opened this thread while searching for Lorenzo...

To anybody who has used this phrase in the bedroom before knows that outside of the bedroom it is a great SS phrase.

It's scary how good this post is though.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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and as always stand up for yourself if they start using you as a punching bag (not only physically, but any kind of verbal abuse too).
What's the best way to do this? Sitting there and taking it makes you look like weak. Getting angry and "coming back" just sinks you to there level. What would be the best way to respond?
 

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That feeling of nervousness isn’t a bad thing; something horrible that “real” Don Juan’s don’t feel. That feeling should be embraced; because it means that this woman we are about to talk to/are talking to is truly a goddess, a woman above the average woman. So don’t beat that feeling into submission, simply be happy you have found a woman suitable for you, a Don Juan.
That is priceless. Must remember that.

Emailed to self. You're gone, you don't care, but it's such good advice.
 
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