Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

A collection of pickup/deep-game notes

FlexpertHamilton

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Most of these are either directly quoted or paraphrased Patrice O'Neal, RSD instructors, RooshV forums, and Rollo.

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market yourself, don't try to sell yourself

*Photos*
head shot
full body shot
out and about
activity
with friends/group


*Messaging*
don't ask questions, make statements and commands
don't qualify yourself or her
don't try establish rapport
don't chase, don't be trying to get her to reply
simple, value giving light texts



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-Approaches can be viewed as "testing chemistry"; rejections should not be viewed as her rejecting you, but both individuals rejecting each other.

-You are the party and she is joining it.

-Play to win, don't play to not-lose. Don't play for good emotions. Take chances. Play to win. Get her attention. Make it fun.

-Consistency/congruency. Alignment between in your thoughts words and actions. Step outside of your comfort zone, but don't be inconsistent.

-Don't seek their reactions. Self entertain and self amuse.

-Approach any, minimize time in between, what you do inbetween approaches is also important, don't judge anything, self-amuse, rapid interactions in the beggining, with longer interactions at the end.

-Always be moving things forward, don't let it stagnate.

-Don't wait for her validation or approval, be confident in your own actions.

-Pretend there are infinite girls and an infinite time to meet them.

-Your actions make you feel good, not theirs.

-Don't approach with an "excuse" to talk to them, just do it.

-Push subsequent interactions further than preceeding ones.


*Locations*
1. The Street
2. Malls
3. The Park/Beach
4. Cafes & Restaurants
5. Bookstores, Libraries, Museums
6. Public Transit
7. The Gym
8. Barbecues, Picnics, Festivals, House Parties, Campus
9. Nice hotels near airports
10. Gym classes
11. Health food stores


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General
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-She wants you to be her daddy, not her dad

-No amount of negotiated ***** will ever be worth losing frame for.

-It’s always better to **** a woman who accepts you as her authority than some half-assed lay with a woman who’s only ****ing you out of a sense of obligation

-Be cool with not-****ing but don't be cool with can't-****

-Women love opportunistically, they're the realists pretending to be romantics, with man it's the opposite of that

-Get in touch with your inner a$$hole

-Be willing to say no or walk away, even if it means you will get held out on having sex, it will devalue her sexual power over you

-Woman cannot be told anything they must be led to their own conclusion so they think that it was their own idea preferably via their own imagined feminine intuition

-They want a guy who gets it without having to be told

-If you feel something in your gut it's valid, it's your subconscious picking up on irregularities in her normal behavior. The medium is the message, the nuances in her incongruent behavior is the message, her going from hot to cold is the message. Mixed signals are never mixed.

-Never go full disclosure, the mystery and imagination should be kept running, caffeinated hamster.

-Alpha is mindset not a demographic

-As has been mentioned age=experience means they know the game and got ****ed to may times.

They realize they ****ed up.
They realized they missed good men to slut around.
They realize time is up, mother nature is calling.
They realize their SMV dropped fast.
They realize being a strong independent woman, killed their soul.

So much can be said about regrets and wishing they could do things different.

"Once broken or corrupted, women do not heal."

Always date, marry, bang, younger - you'll never have that problem.
 

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Bumping this you're welcome
 

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Can't believe I missed this gem. Still very relevant today. Anything else you would add to the list?
 

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I think the point of messaging is to ask her question or make statements, and give her an opportunity to reject you.


That goes back to making statements.
I actually don't really follow either of these. People also say don't ask binary yes/no questions, but I do that all the time too. Some of this advice is low level.
 
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