"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Collection Of Chumpery Messages

The Mad Ghost

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I think I've figured out ONE reason why chicks - All women. From good looking to below average. From airhead to nerd. It doesn't matter, they all have bought into it hook line and sinker. Why? I blame these guys, I blame 90% of men. This is a collection of data gathered from various online sites.

-so hows your day been beautiful
-You look beautiful in that dress
-not even a hi? lol
-Hey babe how u doing hpoe all is well I think u look absolutely buitifull in all your pics I'm here in london 4 6 weeks then I need 2 go back 2 work in Dubai I would love 2 get 2 kno u b4 I go back I hope u dnt mind me asking if u have a bb pin so we can chat more hopefully ill here from u soon bye honey xx
-not even a hello.... :(
-hey bby i ben ok thank u xx how s u bbe any plans for weekend x
-u okay bbe ?x
-babe can u send me ur bb pin pls xx
-im gd where u from
-hey babe your loooking nice
-Hey babes, how was your weekend?
-u sure u not a model..u look beautiful
-hello sexy
-hey babes how u doing?
-yer sweet babe so wuu2 neways ? x
-hello babe how u doin ?
-Hey hows it going hun?ur mad cute btw, so ur a photographer then, im just assuming there urs?x
-whats up beautiful wer u from babe
-yh im alright...were u from?
-yea yea i am good. u r very pretty btw, had a gd weekend
-hi were you in that film that came out recently?
-have a look at my page anything u need or want ill get guaranteed give me a try if you dont see something listed let me know, only add my BB if your serious
-how u doing wanna talk message me bk
-not interested ?
-i would really like getting to know u if u don't mind

There are a ton load of other messages, but are the similar case as above. This is the majority of the average to hot guy game. It really is, its from various different guys, but ALL having the same lines. No wonder, these girls heads are growing by the second.

SOLUTION: So how can we combat the average guys game? Without coming off as try-hard, needy and uninterested at the same time. If you have any collections of this puke material, please share here.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Naughty Ninja

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The Mad Ghost said:
I think I've figured out ONE reason why chicks - All women. From good looking to below average. From airhead to nerd. It doesn't matter, they all have bought into it hook line and sinker. Why? I blame these guys, I blame 90% of men. This is a collection of data gathered from various online sites.

-so hows your day been beautiful
-You look beautiful in that dress
-not even a hi? lol
-Hey babe how u doing hpoe all is well I think u look absolutely buitifull in all your pics I'm here in london 4 6 weeks then I need 2 go back 2 work in Dubai I would love 2 get 2 kno u b4 I go back I hope u dnt mind me asking if u have a bb pin so we can chat more hopefully ill here from u soon bye honey xx
-not even a hello.... :(
-hey bby i ben ok thank u xx how s u bbe any plans for weekend x
-u okay bbe ?x
-babe can u send me ur bb pin pls xx
-im gd where u from
-hey babe your loooking nice
-Hey babes, how was your weekend?
-u sure u not a model..u look beautiful
-hello sexy
-hey babes how u doing?
-yer sweet babe so wuu2 neways ? x
-hello babe how u doin ?
-Hey hows it going hun?ur mad cute btw, so ur a photographer then, im just assuming there urs?x
-whats up beautiful wer u from babe
-yh im alright...were u from?
-yea yea i am good. u r very pretty btw, had a gd weekend
-hi were you in that film that came out recently?
-have a look at my page anything u need or want ill get guaranteed give me a try if you dont see something listed let me know, only add my BB if your serious
-how u doing wanna talk message me bk
-not interested ?
-i would really like getting to know u if u don't mind

There are a ton load of other messages, but are the similar case as above. This is the majority of the average to hot guy game. It really is, its from various different guys, but ALL having the same lines. No wonder, these girls heads are growing by the second.

SOLUTION: So how can we combat the average guys game? Without coming off as try-hard, needy and uninterested at the same time. If you have any collections of this puke material, please share here.
Sh1t like that goes on on Facebook ALL the time. Anytime I've logged in and I saw wall posts from AW's (whom I've since hidden) I'd see tons of chump responses to any little AW whine or pic they'd post. EMBARRASSING!

For once I'd wish all men would man up and ignore them. These women would lose it and there'd probably be a Facebook AW nervous breakdown hotline setup for the country.

Unfortunately chvmp behavior is encouraged in America's media, T.V.,Movies, News, Internet. So I don't think it will ever stop. And the she-go stroking continues. PATHETIC.

Side note: It is amazing how many "men" will revert to keyboard Romeo's who will do anything to "prove" they're a "real man" to women while hiding behind their computer screen. Yet most would never approach these women in RL. And the ones who do will talk the same crap to women in RL as they do on the net. I've even joked about that (in self deprication) when I was on POF. I've been booted again! lol. I'd ask women "How are you looking for a REAL MAN online? REAL MEN don't approach women on the net. The REAL MEN do it in RL." And these dimwits didn't understand what I was getting at...)
 

Tesl

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I agree most guys are total disasters at this sort of thing .... just makes it easier for those of us who know better ... :)
 

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We can know better, but in a reality television, AW "rock star" age, combating the validation seeking from women from the average guy game online is kindof a challenge.

Busting on them is better. As is keeping busy and scarce from posting, complimenting, and validating these twits.
 
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