Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nnyKkA05nYw
When watching this video, or any similar to it, notice how you feel physically before you hit play and then compare it to how you feel after viewing it. Is your heart rate elevated? Did you get a little fight-or-flight adrenal rush? We laugh to relieve the visceral anxiety we feel for this chump, but think of seeing this in terms of transferring this guy's stress level to yourself. We know the ship is going to sink before we watch, but we feel, by order of degrees, what this guy is feeling by association to the point that it prompts a chemical response in us. Why?
Is it that through some psychologically evolved mechanism we've learned to protect ourselves in similar situations in our primal past? Think about what a man would have to believe in order to overcome that mechanism and place himself in a position of public ridicule that ALL depended on the woman's response. This woman is mediocre at best - I'd rate her about an HB 5 - and this guy proposes to her in what he undoubtedly believes is a grand chivalric gesture. I'm sure he genuinely believed she'd appreciate his 'vulnerability' and create a cherished memory for them both as they gracefully age in their marriage. I doubt either of them will ever forget it now.
When watching this video, or any similar to it, notice how you feel physically before you hit play and then compare it to how you feel after viewing it. Is your heart rate elevated? Did you get a little fight-or-flight adrenal rush? We laugh to relieve the visceral anxiety we feel for this chump, but think of seeing this in terms of transferring this guy's stress level to yourself. We know the ship is going to sink before we watch, but we feel, by order of degrees, what this guy is feeling by association to the point that it prompts a chemical response in us. Why?
Is it that through some psychologically evolved mechanism we've learned to protect ourselves in similar situations in our primal past? Think about what a man would have to believe in order to overcome that mechanism and place himself in a position of public ridicule that ALL depended on the woman's response. This woman is mediocre at best - I'd rate her about an HB 5 - and this guy proposes to her in what he undoubtedly believes is a grand chivalric gesture. I'm sure he genuinely believed she'd appreciate his 'vulnerability' and create a cherished memory for them both as they gracefully age in their marriage. I doubt either of them will ever forget it now.