A Cheerleader

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

A Cheerleader: HB9 to me.

Well the history first:

I've known her for a few months... she already knows I'm too shy around her... she knows I broke up with my g/f a week after I met her, and she knows it was for her... she gave me plenty chances to overcome my shyness... she almost gave up on me once for my shyness, but gave me another chance... she eventually DID give up on me about 3 weeks ago because I was quiet... AFTER she gave up on me, I found this site, and realized she REALLY did like me a lot, at first.

But even though she did give up on me...

About 2 weeks ago this girl who I've known for a few months became the co-capt. for the varsity football cheer squad over the summer... if that’s what's it called I think.

So I was with my family and she told me to go to her first game. I told her I would.

I kind of stopped worrying about her too much because school is about to start, and she goes to a different school. But, I still like her A LOT!

After she asked me to go to her game, we talk only like twice a week, since the time she told me to go, and since she probably doesn't like me as much as she used to. (We used to talk everyday.) So the last time I talked to her I asked her if she still wanted me to go to her game... all she said was "yessss" and I'm contemplating if it's "yessss... <I want you to go PLEASE!>" or "yessss... <I'd feel bad for asking you to go, even though I don't want you to anymore.>"

Well since she did say I should go... how can I win her back, and not be pathetic and shy again?

What should I do... this is MOST LIKELY the last, VERY LAST, chance with her. Her game is this Friday, and school starts the Monday after the game! And, we go to DIFFERENT schools!

 

[08aisaac]

Are you a DJ? Apparently not much of one.

Well first off, know that a girl isn't going to lose interest that quickly.

She wants you.

She stopped talking to you so much, because the initial effect of meeting you has passed off, adn since you are just a regular guy, there's no point in trying to attract you. She knows you are attraced, so she doesn't have ot do much.

And different schools aint ****. don't worry.

If you do go to the game, be sure to bring some pals.

Don't be a loner.

And don't worry about attracting her, since she is already attracted, just be more fun and outgoing.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

yah... good tips.

What could I do at her game... make a move... how?...

I want her to know and see that I wouldn't be frigid (scared to be around her and fool around and stuff) if me and her were actually dating.

She asked me before when we were just talking about random things on the phone... "Don't get mad... but are you frigid? Because my last b/f was... and I didn't like it. I pretty much broke up with him for it after a while." She said it in a less mean way though.

Don't get me wrong... she isn't that type of cheerleader... I'm guessing her school doesnt worship jocks/cheerleaders. She is different from other kinds... trust me. But...

"What could I do at her game... make a move... how?..."

I've been thinknig how I could do this for the past week or two. I mean... I'd make a move out of the blue, even after me and her stopped talking as much?

What kind of move should I do also?

I'm soo shy I haven't even hugged her EVER, and she even told me bluntly on the phone a few times... "when you see me next time, give me a hug". I swear I wouldn't be frigid if we were dating!!!

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

*cough*

 

[JSH]

Originally posted by 08aisaac
Are you a DJ? Apparently not much of one.

Well first off, know that a girl isn't going to lose interest that quickly.

She wants you.

She stopped talking to you so much, because the initial effect of meeting you has passed off, adn since you are just a regular guy, there's no point in trying to attract you. She knows you are attraced, so she doesn't have ot do much.

And different schools aint ****. don't worry.

If you do go to the game, be sure to bring some pals.

Don't be a loner.

And don't worry about attracting her, since she is already attracted, just be more fun and outgoing.

Bollocks, go check out alt.fastseduction.groups, and look at tyler durden's follow the shiny thing. Girls lose interest very quickly. To borrow Tylers expression, they are like kittens, they want the closest, biggest and shiniest thing they see. So if someone else offers them something better, they will go for it.

She was attracted, she must be bored. You need to give her signs of interest. Take her out and DJ her.

Oh and READ THE BIBLE

 

[jenzos]

Originally posted by JSH
Bollocks, go check out alt.fastseduction.groups, and look at tyler durden's follow the shiny thing. Girls lose interest very quickly. To borrow Tylers expression, they are like kittens, they want the closest, biggest and shiniest thing they see. So if someone else offers them something better, they will go for it.

She was attracted, she must be bored. You need to give her signs of interest. Take her out and DJ her.

Oh and READ THE BIBLE

how do u check alt.fastseduction.groups? isnt that a newsgroup?

oh yeah and...........




:cheer: :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee :cheer: :cheer:

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

anymore advice? and i have read parts of the bible.... too much.. i read about the "kino" and stufff


im looking for advice like:

"when shes done cheering.. do this..." or something.... ive been thinking what to do.. just dunno what it would really be like if i did those.

i know i shouldnt be thinking so much of a plan... but i do think about it.

 

[JSH]

we all did, which is why you should read the bible. We cant help you, your overanalysing. Btw: its not perfect when you have a foolproof plan, because you dont enjoy yourself. Just have fun.

 

[i am me]

hav fun and...i think she likes u dude. quality girls usually dont give up that easy. girls that mess around alot hav that short attention span...

really, jus look at it from her point of view. if she still likes u even from the way ur acting, chances are that she likes u alot. shes not obsessed with u from wut i can tell but she prolly has one of those long lasting crushes.

so jus hav fun, be yourself, dont overcomplicate things with tips n tricks, and hang out with the girl u like. peace

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

ahhhhh ego+confidence boost!!! thx

 

[08aisaac]

Cool. Well you might even date her?

I know the kind of girl you are talking about, and I like one just like her.

Lots of fun, but I don't know her enough.

Just remember to have some patience, because you can have her when ever.

 

[Sammo]

Re: A Cheerleader: HB9 to me.

Originally posted by MikeS
Well the history first:

I've known her for a few months... she already knows I'm too shy around her... she knows I broke up with my g/f a week after I met her, and she knows it was for her... she gave me plenty chances to overcome my shyness... she almost gave up on me once for my shyness, but gave me another chance... she eventually DID give up on me about 3 weeks ago because I was quiet... AFTER she gave up on me, I found this site, and realized she REALLY did like me a lot, at first.

But even though she did give up on me...

About 2 weeks ago this girl who I've known for a few months became the co-capt. for the varsity football cheer squad over the summer... if that’s what's it called I think.

So I was with my family and she told me to go to her first game. I told her I would.

I kind of stopped worrying about her too much because school is about to start, and she goes to a different school. But, I still like her A LOT!

After she asked me to go to her game, we talk only like twice a week, since the time she told me to go, and since she probably doesn't like me as much as she used to. (We used to talk everyday.) So the last time I talked to her I asked her if she still wanted me to go to her game... all she said was "yessss" and I'm contemplating if it's "yessss... <I want you to go PLEASE!>" or "yessss... <I'd feel bad for asking you to go, even though I don't want you to anymore.>"

Well since she did say I should go... how can I win her back, and not be pathetic and shy again?

What should I do... this is MOST LIKELY the last, VERY LAST, chance with her. Her game is this Friday, and school starts the Monday after the game! And, we go to DIFFERENT schools!

Go there.. grab your balls. Its perfect conditions man, you go to completely DIFFERENT SCHOOLS! You have absolutely nothing to lose! Noone will hear about your failure which is what your scared about (not that they would give a **** anyway). There are three outcomes:

1) You make a move and she shuts you down. You walk away with a bit of experience at handling rejection and only helps you handle different girls in the future.
2) You make a move and she says is all to happy to go along with it. You take her on a date, you tounge her down and who knows? You might even get your end wet.
3) You dont make a move, and you sit contemplating for the next 3 weeks wether you still have a chance or not.

Seriously man, look at the above options and realise; why the **** did i ask this question in the first place? Time to locate your package my friend.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

ahhh.. all so true.

plus i have a best friend whos a girl going with me.. she can be a wing-woman