"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A challenge: Simply awesome.

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For the party goers, this is for you.

Prerequisite
You must be able to completely pull someone into state.
That is, you must be able to pull up one girl sitting down in a chill state into a dance state.

The challenge
If you don't have the prerequisite of being able to pull someone from a lower state to doing something in a more exciting state, this isn't for you.

Simply pull up one girl from what ever she's doing and say "You, come dance." if all goes well and she's following you away to the dance floor.
- As you walk pull more girls, if you get the second you WILL get the third and forth,fifth whatever.

The tips
  • Make sure the first girl is highly public so everyone can see this, a lot of this relies on social pressure.
  • Exagerate. Your energy should be through the roof, your tone loud and your intentions clear; this will make the other girls want to be a part of that.
  • If you've never done something like this or if this seems simply out of character, pick the first and second girl as girls you already know. When you do this right it won't matter.
  • Lastly. A little partying publically and socialising like crazy will set the scene for this behaviour, making it more fluid.
Why
You know why surely!
When this is pulled off any one of those girls would be lucky for you to let them put your junk in their mouth!
Pretty much any girl, dancing with you or not would love for you to even talk to them after this.

This isn't new, it's social proof but to do this you'll need to be the man.

I challenge you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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