"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A challenge: Simply awesome.

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For the party goers, this is for you.

Prerequisite
You must be able to completely pull someone into state.
That is, you must be able to pull up one girl sitting down in a chill state into a dance state.

The challenge
If you don't have the prerequisite of being able to pull someone from a lower state to doing something in a more exciting state, this isn't for you.

Simply pull up one girl from what ever she's doing and say "You, come dance." if all goes well and she's following you away to the dance floor.
- As you walk pull more girls, if you get the second you WILL get the third and forth,fifth whatever.

The tips
  • Make sure the first girl is highly public so everyone can see this, a lot of this relies on social pressure.
  • Exagerate. Your energy should be through the roof, your tone loud and your intentions clear; this will make the other girls want to be a part of that.
  • If you've never done something like this or if this seems simply out of character, pick the first and second girl as girls you already know. When you do this right it won't matter.
  • Lastly. A little partying publically and socialising like crazy will set the scene for this behaviour, making it more fluid.
Why
You know why surely!
When this is pulled off any one of those girls would be lucky for you to let them put your junk in their mouth!
Pretty much any girl, dancing with you or not would love for you to even talk to them after this.

This isn't new, it's social proof but to do this you'll need to be the man.

I challenge you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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