"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A Call to......the DJ's

Reykhel

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I'm writing this as a call...

why?

I tell you why...I saw a post of the grand @guru yes........

.....really good post.......

.....and it reminded me of....

1. There are quality DJ's here @Espi
2. The quality DJ's are not posting enough
3. too many waste of time threads

you agree?? or not??

bring quality back to so suave , no?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Reykhel

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What do you suggest? Great idea and I'd like to hear your gameplan.

Only so much advice can be given over and over. I'd like to start a thread where we have all the "beginner" questions with answers. And if anyone has a question, reply to the thread and it will be added. This could help clear some stuff up.
Good man @KingofPuss

You know what I'm talking about right? you remember guru, no?

At least you, you putting out there FR's, like @Last of the Alphas said.....we have to
applaud the decent **** that's going on, no?

@KingofPuss we have to do something man
 

Reykhel

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Yeah maybe the discussion forum can be broken up into
beginner and so on......

something has to change.

there are some quality posters here.

look at Guru. fvcking quality. and now? gone
 

Reykhel

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@Last of the Alphas furk ye

Oh yah. I remember that guy. Very quality poster. But he has a life, just like everyone here. I've been on and off sometimes. Occasionally I get absolutely fed up with game, sosuave, women, people, and society. I need a good few days to just introvert and relax, once every half year or so.
Yeah like me, I take a break all the time.

I don't know............but we can do something to improve this site no?
 

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I said it a couple of times. Field Reports, or journals. This will create a sense of community, both newbies and pros sharing their succeses and failures for learning profit and laughs. Also, the atmosphere of the forum will change from one of "we are powerless, why even care" to "hahaha, this **** is fvcking funny and exciting, I want to share my stories too (and this forces me to actually go out and create some stories)".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good idea @KingofPuss

I too get sick of all the newbie, amateurish threads.
I can think of a few threads... COUGH AV1CHEM..... sorry bad allergies as of late.
I said it a couple of times. Field Reports, or journals. This will create a sense of community, both newbies and pros sharing their succeses and failures for learning profit and laughs. Also, the atmosphere of the forum will change from one of "we are powerless, why even care" to "hahaha, this **** is fvcking funny and exciting, I want to share my stories too (and this forces me to actually go out and create some stories)".
I agree. More story sharing needs to happen. That was the fun of reading old threads where this was the norm for posting.
 

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this forum and web forums in general are last of a dieing breed. these new generation cats aren't coming to sosuave anymore, hell PUA fad has completely died out basically too. now you got everyone going to reddit,all the red pilllers and MGtow guys. Lots of supreme gentlemen type over there from what ive heard...

idk bros...the internet has changed...id be surprised to see this board even being used in 5 years TBH.

Ive been here far too long..since age 17 when I discovered this place. Not sure why I keep coming back. guess its just my old online haunt. Oldest forum I frequent. Im actually amazed its still going. Most of my posts were racked up WAY back when..Nostalgia flowing now
 
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