"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A Call to......the DJ's

Reykhel

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I'm writing this as a call...

why?

I tell you why...I saw a post of the grand @guru yes........

.....really good post.......

.....and it reminded me of....

1. There are quality DJ's here @Espi
2. The quality DJ's are not posting enough
3. too many waste of time threads

you agree?? or not??

bring quality back to so suave , no?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What do you suggest? Great idea and I'd like to hear your gameplan.

Only so much advice can be given over and over. I'd like to start a thread where we have all the "beginner" questions with answers. And if anyone has a question, reply to the thread and it will be added. This could help clear some stuff up.
Good man @KingofPuss

You know what I'm talking about right? you remember guru, no?

At least you, you putting out there FR's, like @Last of the Alphas said.....we have to
applaud the decent **** that's going on, no?

@KingofPuss we have to do something man
 

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Yeah maybe the discussion forum can be broken up into
beginner and so on......

something has to change.

there are some quality posters here.

look at Guru. fvcking quality. and now? gone
 

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@Last of the Alphas furk ye

Oh yah. I remember that guy. Very quality poster. But he has a life, just like everyone here. I've been on and off sometimes. Occasionally I get absolutely fed up with game, sosuave, women, people, and society. I need a good few days to just introvert and relax, once every half year or so.
Yeah like me, I take a break all the time.

I don't know............but we can do something to improve this site no?
 

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I said it a couple of times. Field Reports, or journals. This will create a sense of community, both newbies and pros sharing their succeses and failures for learning profit and laughs. Also, the atmosphere of the forum will change from one of "we are powerless, why even care" to "hahaha, this **** is fvcking funny and exciting, I want to share my stories too (and this forces me to actually go out and create some stories)".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good idea @KingofPuss

I too get sick of all the newbie, amateurish threads.
I can think of a few threads... COUGH AV1CHEM..... sorry bad allergies as of late.
I said it a couple of times. Field Reports, or journals. This will create a sense of community, both newbies and pros sharing their succeses and failures for learning profit and laughs. Also, the atmosphere of the forum will change from one of "we are powerless, why even care" to "hahaha, this **** is fvcking funny and exciting, I want to share my stories too (and this forces me to actually go out and create some stories)".
I agree. More story sharing needs to happen. That was the fun of reading old threads where this was the norm for posting.
 

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this forum and web forums in general are last of a dieing breed. these new generation cats aren't coming to sosuave anymore, hell PUA fad has completely died out basically too. now you got everyone going to reddit,all the red pilllers and MGtow guys. Lots of supreme gentlemen type over there from what ive heard...

idk bros...the internet has changed...id be surprised to see this board even being used in 5 years TBH.

Ive been here far too long..since age 17 when I discovered this place. Not sure why I keep coming back. guess its just my old online haunt. Oldest forum I frequent. Im actually amazed its still going. Most of my posts were racked up WAY back when..Nostalgia flowing now
 
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