"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A C T I O N ! ! !

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It's funny how the Holy Grail of this forum has become a mere sense of normalcy. Approaching, talking to and sexing women is all part of our natural birthright yet we have managed to let society and the opinions of our fellow men influence us to become more and more impotent with fear and laziness. It's gotten to the point where the advice "Be a Man" has become revolutionary....go figure.

I think its important for us to remember that while it is honorable to be a man, there is no special accomplishment in it. This is how you are SUPPOSED to be. Anything less and you are just a lost little boy playing with his wee-wee, wondering why the girls treat him like a friend. And so millions of us scratch our heads wondering what women want as we struggle to free ourselves from society's template of pseudo-men and AFCs. We get lost in a million threads of advice because we think women are like a tough video game and places like these have all the cheat codes. But that's not how it works, at least not entirely. Amidst the mass of ignorance you will find some valuable insight here. Soak it up, but don't get lost in the virtual world and most importantly, don't get this twisted...

Being a man has nothing to do with trying to figure out what women want. Sometimes they live in an ideal reality and will only accept "Grade A" beef. Sometimes they get lonely and will settle for less than ideal. Other times they just get plain horny and just about any penis with a body will do. Or maybe she just wants to use you to get over someone else. Anything is possible. Point is you never know what women want and its worthless trying to figure it out because 99,999 times out of 100,000, they have no f*cking clue themselves.

The truth is that you dont have to be man or DJ to get laid. People lower their standards all the time and hot babes are no exception. AFC's tap hot ass every day and that's a fact! This knowledge alone should hearten the ugliest of us... seduction is very much affected by the tides and moodswings of a woman, but all the same that doesn't mean that we have to be at their mercy.

This is why patience is crucial. Sometimes you shoot yourself in the foot by trying to "close the deal" at the wrong moment or just chicken out instead of striking while the iron is hot. Windows of opportunity open up when you turn the heat on...gradually and in a relaxed fashion. Is it hot in here, or is it just her? You were born to lead in this game, but remember that a successful leader moves in sync with the rhythm of his followers.

Here is some healthy advice...LJBF 3 hot chicks and just hang out with them like you are "one of the girls". The more time you spend with them, the more easily you will be able to see through them. You will be astounded by how well these women can play-act, all in an effort to "be a challenge" or just play the game, quite frankly. They all struggle for status and individuality but in the end game is game, and you start to notice patterns. These are just feedback patterns though... because they are conditional to YOUR state of mind.

This is why reading posts will only get you so far. The knowledge is very personal and what works for one guy will be a disaster for another. Personal experience in the real world is the best teacher. So be wary of people here with the title "Master Don Juan" and thousands of posts. They are usually the ones caught up in the Matrix with little game of their own and too much spare time on their hands. Let's face the facts...real men are out there DOING, not racking up tons of posts on how they think it should be done.

Conclusion:

Put down the surf manual and ride the wave your damn self! Learn how to surf these b!tches till you end in their tubes. This aint a spectator sport, you gotta learn to make your own moves and live for the thrill of it. You must find what moves you through life...handling women is just a part of it all and in the end the way you maintain yourself will reflect on how you relate to others. Be a man, be a jerk, be a nice guy...it doesn't matter because everyone has a style that suits them. Be true to yourself, but more importantly KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU STAND FOR so you will enjoy it all the more as you hear them scream your name.

Last piece of advice...don't forget to slap that ass when she is about to come. Not too hard, but hard enough to sting and make a decent "WAP!" Haha...they love that sh!t...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Solid post.
 
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