"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dadmonson

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Listen I'm a virgin and I want to have sex, I want to have it bad but I don't want a relationship or anything. I just want sex. I'm 17 so I can't go to any clubs or anything. I bassically just want to have somethin like a one night stand. Anybody got any suggestions?

P.S. I am not masturbating anymore because I was dependen on my hand and porn too much instead of real women to fulfill my needs. Thats been hendering me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bvbidd

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People your age gather and consume a substance known as alchohol.

Go where they gather.
 

johnmich

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Bvbidd said:
People your age gather and consume a substance known as alchohol.

Go where they gather.
Yea, we used to go drinkin in the streets. Why not try a house party - all you need is a free house and get a few friends round and some friends of your friends. Have a few (not a lot) so its just chillin drinkin n havin a good time and make a move on a friends friend.
 

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You can go down town. There, you'll find a street corner where all of these hot babes are hanging out all dressed up in short skirts and halter tops. Just walk up to one of them and ask her if she'd like a good time. :crackup: :crackup:
 

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You are never, ever going to get laid, at 17, with that attitude. First of all, you need to have some sort of relationship with a girl to understand how girls work and how to get intimate with them. You cannot just jump right into ****ing girls if you don't know how to deal with them. Those of us who can have one-night-stands understand the concept of creating a powerful rapport with a girl once you meet her so she feels like she has known you for ages. With no actual relationship experience, you will have no clue on how to build rapport. Just go out and try and find a girlfriend of somesort, keep it casual, and escalate to sex. If you are really concerned, PM me and I will give you some more in-depth advice on getting laid at this age.

--Mission
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good_ol_boy said:
You can go down town. There, you'll find a street corner where all of these hot babes are hanging out all dressed up in short skirts and halter tops. Just walk up to one of them and ask her if she'd like a good time. :crackup: :crackup:



30 bucks and your made!!!! :up: :crackup:
 

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Poor guy. The more desperate you become, the more obvious it is.

Read the bible.
Read the posts.
Read the articles.
Come back when you're not horny.
 

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At least you stopped masturbating and watching porn. That was the first step for me. The next step is to actually appreciate women for what they are, which is not a piece of meat.
 

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virginsplea is the most AFC ****.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yo youre sounding real thirsty right now. Im a virgin too, and ive been that age and it is a b***h. Personally, i do not masturbate and i never started, and that has f***ed me up, because i my face gets so red, and my heartrate goes up, just from flirting with a girl. But anyway, i can smell your desperation, and if i can, definitely a female will sense that **** right away and start hitting you off with some of that ********.
(1) Ok do you have an active social life?
(2) do you have friends that are girls?
Before you can bring sexual girls into your life you have to take care of these things.
I would personally recommend f***ing a friend for your first time. But thats just me, with some of my friends i have the option of going down the friend path or the f buddy path. Thats a good arrangement for me because ive never seen f***ing before and she knows im a virgin and want her to be the only girl that knows that. But maybe you can just wing it through your first time.
See i hate all of this advice about stop masturbating because carrrying more semen does not = confidence and masculinity, = a big strong force of, you want it more. YOure definitly not getting **** if you want it that much (with out paying for it)
 

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T Money said:
At least you stopped masturbating and watching porn. That was the first step for me. The next step is to actually appreciate women for what they are, which is not a piece of meat.


Sounds all feminist and stuff. They are a piece of meat. In the opening stages, thats all they are. If they play their cards right, then that's when they become more. You can't go around treating women like godesses and such and expect to be a DJ.

According to wikipedia, Don Juan is...

"According to some, Don Juan was a simple, lustful womanizer, a cruel seducer who simply gets sex wherever he can. Others, however, see Don Juan as a man who genuinely loves every woman that he seduces, and it is his gift to see the true beauty and intrinsic value which exist within every woman."

I happen to find a middle ground. A woman is only good for one thing until she proves that she can match me on a mental level. Only then will I consider taking things further. Granted, I don't hit it, quit it, and dip, but I don't go around telling women that I appreciate them either.
 

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Their is nothing wrong with the masterbating part thats just normal. It becomes abnormal when it starts to interfer with your daily life. Get out more guy and meet more girls wherever. that should take you shyness away. yeah like the other guys said a friend could be good to start off. Hey I love women because of the qualities they poses other than their physical. I dont now what i would so without them i wouldnt live. There is nothing wrong with porn it depends on how you use it (if you use it for art, or if you use it to pleasaure yourself)
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