"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A Brief History Of American Healthcare

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A long time ago, over a hundred years or so, healthcare was affordable. Now it's not. What happened? Government, who allowed themselves to be lobbied by business, got involved. Here's a breakdown.

1) 1847 American Medical Association founded. They lobbied government to limit the number of medical schools, the number of medical students, and the number of doctors. Why? The same reason any other company lobbies government: To protect themselves from competition. By artificially keeping their numbers down, doctors artificially raised their salaries.

2)1929 Blue Shield founded. First insurance company. This created a third party payer. Instead of consumers paying producers directly, a third party got involved. This meant that the concept of cost was removed from the equation. When you are shopping for something that you have to pay for directly, you are very concerned with the price. When you are shopping for something that somebody else is going to pay for, the price becomes less important. This leads to a further increase in prices, as people tend to buy more of the service. Originally this was limited to people with certain jobs in high risk areas.

3) Post WWII. The government had wage controls limiting how much companies could pay employees. To increase their bargaining power, companies started VOLUNTARILY offering health insurance. This further led to a rise in prices, as more consumers than ever didn't need to worry about actual costs when visiting a doctor.

4) Medicare. Because of previous events, (supply kept artificially low, and demand raised artificially high) prices skyrocketed. Politicians, in order to get votes from citizens, promised further government funding of health care through government paid insurance. This further increased demand, which further increased prices.

5) Obamacare. This just another in a long line of government intervention into the healthcare market. While it promises to increase quality and decrease cost, it is the same thing that has been done before, and will have the same effect. Higher prices, and lower service, and more money siphoned away from other areas of the economy.

Nobody wants poor people to go without medical care. Nobody wants anybody to die without seeing a doctor. Affordable health care for everybody is a worthy goal and is achievable, but only if the right steps are taken. Please take some time to study the issue from an economic standpoint, and not based only on your own experiences, and your own emotions.

The more government gets involved, the worse it gets. Government and more laws are not the solution. They are the problem.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Who Dares Win

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The more government gets involved, the worse it gets. Government and more laws are not the solution. They are the problem.
This alone would answer so many questions, the problem is that lot of people (and lot of users in this forum) consider themselve as weak child who needs a nanny state to take care of them, they are so insecure about their own judment and position that are more than willing to sell their freedom for the promise and illusion of safety and protection.
 

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I know next to nothing about our awful healthcare system. My basic understanding is that the middle man, insurance, offers zero value yet it jacks up the prices and makes the patient/doctor relationship very complicated.

Health care should be like any other service in our economy - commensurate in regards to price with what people can afford but give practitioners incentive to provide a good service. If nothing is affordable, than no economy for the product/ service would exist. "health care" is not affordable by 99% of us - if you get a condition requiring surgery, no one can pay for it out of pocket.

My opinion would be to abolish these health care provides - annihilate the middle man that jacks up prices and complexity. Have a system where the patient and doctor barter for prices of their visits. Its caveman style, but get rid of the third party. So what does obamacare offer that will change the system? (I really dont know..)
 

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politicians have zero incentive to act fiscally responsible. that is the inherent problem. promise your constituants the world and they will vote for you. simple. thats what happened in greece.
 

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My basic understanding is that the middle man, insurance, offers zero value yet it jacks up the prices and makes the patient/doctor relationship very complicated.

And don't forget the lawyers. They are just as bad as insurance companies.

Have you ever noticed the price for veterinary surgeries? The highest price I have seen is only a thousand or two bucks, which is because there is no insurance or lawyers involved, and that is all that people can afford to pay. If you took away the ability to sue for malpractice and eliminated insurance, I think the cost of healthcare would be about 1/10th of what it is now.

On the other hand, a bad doctor can kill people or injure patients and there is not much recourse for the family if they can't sue. A long time ago when my grandpa was a kid, before ordinary people sued each other, he crashed his bike and chipped a front tooth. They went to the dentist, who happened to be falling down drunk that day and who decided to pull most of his teeth just for fun. Grandpa ended up having full dentures by the time he was 21. It never occurred to anyone to sue.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bible_Belt said:
My basic understanding is that the middle man, insurance, offers zero value yet it jacks up the prices and makes the patient/doctor relationship very complicated.

And don't forget the lawyers. They are just as bad as insurance companies.

Have you ever noticed the price for veterinary surgeries? The highest price I have seen is only a thousand or two bucks, which is because there is no insurance or lawyers involved, and that is all that people can afford to pay. If you took away the ability to sue for malpractice and eliminated insurance, I think the cost of healthcare would be about 1/10th of what it is now.

On the other hand, a bad doctor can kill people or injure patients and there is not much recourse for the family if they can't sue. A long time ago when my grandpa was a kid, before ordinary people sued each other, he crashed his bike and chipped a front tooth. They went to the dentist, who happened to be falling down drunk that day and who decided to pull most of his teeth just for fun. Grandpa ended up having full dentures by the time he was 21. It never occurred to anyone to sue.
Wait till the trial lawyers sign up Fido as lead plaintiff in a class action for being nuetered without consent.

If you have been nuetered through no fault of your own, you may be entitled to compensation.

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