"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A bored ponderance

Kourt

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Hey guys, I'm bored, figured I'd ask a question I'd been tossing around my head

So I started talkin to this girl recently that I had know in high school on the facebook, and in her last messege to me (probably 4 hours ago now) she gave me her screen name and told me to IM her.

She had gone to bed already but she had this as her away messege.

yeah my house smells like cigarettes and other various things
it was basically the german party house while they were in marquette (how ironic)
and i like a boy i shouldn't.
how wonderful
however, i'm not in trouble.

So I'm curious is this was happenstance or if you guys think she likes me, cuz she is one of my sisters friends and 2 years younger, which could explain the 'i shouldn't'

this girls pretty cute and has a good personality, I'd date her, I'll just have to talk to her sooner or later and see if I get a vibe from her, what you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Phyzzle

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So you're trying to figure out if a girl likes you from an IM away message?

Oh Kourt, you and your wacky hijinks!

She hasn't seen you for 2 years? She ain't talkin about you. But don't sweat it: 18 yr olds get crushes every 5 minutes.
 

Kourt

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haha yeah dude, im just bored and cant sleep so I let my mind wander, better than thinkin about the psycho ex, no?
 

Ace of Flames

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Make this fun. Next time you talk to her, be like "So I saw someone's away message the other day...". If she starts freaking out, I guess there's your answer.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kourt

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haha yeah, she IM'ed me this morning saying she was sorry she had to crash early and will hopefully talk to me soon, so /shrug, we'll see
 

Wiesman44

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looks like someone's about to develop a case of one-itis soon.
 

Kourt

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psssh lol not really, havnt even talked to her yet, I'm just glad that I'm still able to get a little female attention : P
 
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