"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A Bit of Motivation Please...

Badladman

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So anyhow, after high school, I decided to take summer school. Its pretty OK so far, alot of work but its OK. Well thats past the point. Theres enough girls there to be approached. One girl in particular, is in my class. We've talked once, but out of work. So my thoughts is how to talk to her again, without making it seem weird. Shes all the way on the other side of the room, so in my opinion, this makes it hard. So any ideas on how to help me out on this? Do whatever you can, say anything, it'll help in some kind of way. Thanks!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bawb14

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Sit next to her and just talk. But remember you don't want her, she wants you, and you're doing her a favor. I'm serious, don't you think YOU ARE more important than she is? Who's a cooler, smarter, more rounded person? I bet you are. Who is actually going to have the balls to get up, sit next to her and talk to her? You are, she's not. She's just too embarrassed to do anything she will just sit there, so it's up to you to take what is YOURS. Just need to go and get it.
 

secks

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Make sure you smile as you approach her. If you freak out and don't know what to say, she will smile back and start talking.

If you do it right, you can get her to laugh before you even say a word.
 
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