"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A Bit of Motivation Please...

Badladman

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So anyhow, after high school, I decided to take summer school. Its pretty OK so far, alot of work but its OK. Well thats past the point. Theres enough girls there to be approached. One girl in particular, is in my class. We've talked once, but out of work. So my thoughts is how to talk to her again, without making it seem weird. Shes all the way on the other side of the room, so in my opinion, this makes it hard. So any ideas on how to help me out on this? Do whatever you can, say anything, it'll help in some kind of way. Thanks!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bawb14

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Sit next to her and just talk. But remember you don't want her, she wants you, and you're doing her a favor. I'm serious, don't you think YOU ARE more important than she is? Who's a cooler, smarter, more rounded person? I bet you are. Who is actually going to have the balls to get up, sit next to her and talk to her? You are, she's not. She's just too embarrassed to do anything she will just sit there, so it's up to you to take what is YOURS. Just need to go and get it.
 

secks

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Make sure you smile as you approach her. If you freak out and don't know what to say, she will smile back and start talking.

If you do it right, you can get her to laugh before you even say a word.
 
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