Deadly_Assassin
Master Don Juan
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I was talking to my mate at work and we were on about girls and relationships.
Heres a few things we found that were different in the dating culture in the States and New Zealand.
Ok here in New Zealand asking a girl out is like asking her to be in a relationship with you ( most of the time ). Well thats how people see it. If you tell them I went out with so and so last night on a date, they automatically presume you two are in a relationship now.
Another one that is different is that say in the afternoon today I go out with one girl on a date, it would be considered by most people here in NZ that I am playing on that girl if I go out on a date with another chick later on in the evening.
I am making these comparisons because I have heard things are a little different in the states:
Like going on a date and theres no expectations of a relationship and you can go on multiple dates in the States as long as you are not in any relationship?
You might ask why i have brought this up? The reason being that I feel us guys here in NZ ( I dont know how it is in Auz) have to build way more rapport with the girl to get a date with her. Because she is expecting a relationship when I am asking her out. I wanna know what others think of this especially NZ djs.
Heres a few things we found that were different in the dating culture in the States and New Zealand.
Ok here in New Zealand asking a girl out is like asking her to be in a relationship with you ( most of the time ). Well thats how people see it. If you tell them I went out with so and so last night on a date, they automatically presume you two are in a relationship now.
Another one that is different is that say in the afternoon today I go out with one girl on a date, it would be considered by most people here in NZ that I am playing on that girl if I go out on a date with another chick later on in the evening.
I am making these comparisons because I have heard things are a little different in the states:
Like going on a date and theres no expectations of a relationship and you can go on multiple dates in the States as long as you are not in any relationship?
You might ask why i have brought this up? The reason being that I feel us guys here in NZ ( I dont know how it is in Auz) have to build way more rapport with the girl to get a date with her. Because she is expecting a relationship when I am asking her out. I wanna know what others think of this especially NZ djs.