A bit of an issue.....

[zen511]

Ok, in all my years of dating I have never run into a problem like this nor have I probably ever been as patient with a woman. I began dating this chick about a month or so ago, and she is gorgeous, I mean in 9-10 range. I get looks all the time, how did this guy get a chick that looks like this. To top it off she is great in terms of being fun, and a nice personality besides being a tad ditzy but I can live with that. Great huh? Well not really, she doesn't put out, well lets put it a different way, I get her back to my place or her place, and everything is going and I just cant seem to stick it in her, it is like her hole is tighter than the jaws of life, and after the fourth time and failed attempt I have become frustrated with it, she seems so into me that when I attempted to breakup she began crying and the usual bs, but what surprised me was her saying well, I don't what is wrong but I will blow you until we figure this out, so I guess I can't complain about not being satisfied, but I am a guy who likes sex more than oral. I want to be able especially if I do make her my gf in time, to be able to say lets have a quickie before hitting the bar, or whatever and not have it turned into this huge ordeal. I am slightly drunk and probably rambling but it has just been bugging me and I dunno if I should break it off or what.

 

[Crazy Asian]

depends on wut ur personal interests in a relationship are.

and how old are u?

 

[BrokenLeftWing]

I need for information. Are you a virgin? Do you finger her before?

 

[The Juan and only]

wait, she's a 9/10 (and as you say, out of your league in terms of looks), nice personality, obviously a virgin, and you try to break up with her after 4 failed attempts to get it in? jesus christ, that's either immature or stupid or both.

My current girlfriend took about a month of finger stretching before we could do it. Just help her out, let her learn about sex with you. You may even find it fun.

p.s This story sounds like B.S to me. Leave it out guys.

 

[NickBe]

You do know that if you pull of a womans pants and try to stick your pen*s in right away you probably wont be able to. You got to get some foreplay in to get her wet. As a woman get's horny her pu*sy dilates and lubricates.

On the other hand if she is a virgin obviously you need to take it slow, finger her first a few times.

 

[Street_Fighter]

you have to lick it before you stick it


could be that she may be a little anxious and uptight about the whole situation.You can try massaging her a little bit just to loosen her up, then a little foreplay with nicely lubed fingers and just ease it in there a little ...kinda like working off a socket with some WD40 soaked in,you can't just crank the sucker,you have to play with a little,just enough effort but not too much...ya knows.
If that dosen't work then just ease off and make out some more and try again..unless you're hung like a horse and shes built like a 5 ft. mongolian midget then by all means,move on or buy a jar o'magic lube.

 

[Street_Fighter]

You do know that if you pull of a womans pants and try to stick your pen*s in right away you probably wont be able to. You got to get some foreplay in to get her wet. As a woman get's horny her pu*sy dilates and lubricates.

On the other hand if she is a virgin obviously you need to take it slow, finger her first a few times.

you know I actually tried that when I was 14 and didn't know any better..
I was wondering what all the fuss was about,once I got it right it was like the heavens parted and I heard birds singing for the first time in my life :crackup:

the difference between a slipN'slide and slidding your nards across sand paper...yikes

 

[The Juan and only]

State of arousal is ofc important, but for virgins the hymen is often largely or at least significantly intact, and prevents the necessary expansion. Fingering will eventually sort it out.

 

[Street_Fighter]

State of arousal is ofc important, but for virgins the hymen is often largely or at least significantly intact, and prevents the necessary expansion. Fingering will eventually sort it out.

heck yeah it's important..it's nothing less fun then trying to get it on with a girl that's stiff as a board ,besides..if she's uncomfortable it tends to make me uncomfortable.Talk about killing the mood

 

[Dongfu]

This sort of problem is why younger guys need to ****ing older chicks - for training - If you are still in your teens, try banging a girl in her mid to late thirties - she will walk you through the simple steps.

ANd how old is this girl anyway?

 

[drummer]

Somehow I don't see too many 30 year old banging high school students.

 

[zen511]

In response to a few question, no I am not a virgin, I actually have been in two ltr prior (one 4yr, the other 2 yr), so I have had my share of sex, enough to get good at it, and have not had a problem with any other women in between thoes relationships and since. I do not know if she is a virigin, I have asked her and she said no, when fingering her, there was no sign that she was a virgin either... In respect to the lick it comment, that has been done, to the point where she was brought to an O, last night there was no licking though, since she was on the rag. All I can say, is I do not see where excessive foreplay is necessary for insertion to occur. Haven't we all had a quickie?? That is what is troubling me.... each attempt so far there was enough lubrication, and foreplay, so I am at a loss... Do you think, she could be a virgin and just not telling me?

 

[NickBe]

When you have a quickie she is usually horny and ready for a quickie. I believe the next question is how big is your p*nis?

 

[Street_Fighter]

All I can say, is I do not see where excessive foreplay is necessary for insertion to occur. Haven't we all had a quickie?? That is what is troubling me.... each attempt so far there was enough lubrication, and foreplay, so I am at a loss... Do you think, she could be a virgin and just not telling me?

she sounds really frigid

 

[zen511]

yeah, what I am saying is that according to her she is arroused, and "doesn't know whats going on", in response to penis size, I am above avg in lenght, and just average in terms of girth, so I doubt thats the reason