A bit nervous about making all the decisions

[Jon55]

I was reading this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=136122

and came across this:

Be a MAN: This one is also a crucial part. Women want a MAN not a boy! You must be the dominate one in the relationship. How can you be the MAN or Dominate one? You have to be the one; making decisions. You decide, what to do, where to go, what time, how you do it. You lead and she follows. If your girl is acting up and doing something you don't like. You communicate with her and tell her how you feel. You don't let her use you for your sh!t. Tease her every now and then.

I understand men have to make all the decisions, as the post describes, but I get a bit nervous sometimes and wondering if I'm making the right decisions. I know she'll be happy I'm making the decisions, but will she like the decisions I made? It's a bit of self-doubt I guess?

 

[scottfall]

The whole point in taking the lead is to show that you have confidence in your decisions. You can never make the wrong decision, things progress how they are supposed to progress. If she gets mad because something turned out differently than expected- oh well. Her emotions are her emotions, you cant change them no matter how hard you try. You can only make things worse by trying to fix something that wasent broken in the first place.

 

[Jon55]

The whole point in taking the lead is to show that you have confidence in your decisions. You can never make the wrong decision, things progress how they are supposed to progress. If she gets mad because something turned out differently than expected- oh well. Her emotions are her emotions, you cant change them no matter how hard you try. You can only make things worse by trying to fix something that wasent broken in the first place.

Well said. Thanks for putting that in perspective.

 

[Cashew]

If the decision is right for you, then that's all that matters.