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lizardking82

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Knew this girl very randomly about 6 months back at a youth meeting where I went with another girl I know and she was quite cute, a bit rural in mentality cause she;s lived in rural areas almost half her life, but courageous girl.

Fast forward a couple of months later, we connect through Instagram and then through Facebook and I find out she has done two new songs, her first ever songs, along with a video and everything and is on her way to being a singer. We set up a meeting after chatting a short while. It was Monday, we set it up for Wednesday. Next day she calls me at 11:30 AM, says her best girlfriend has her birth day and that she would love it if I could come and take some professional/artistic pics of her. I say to myself what the hell, why not, so I go. Her girl friend was a good looking girl, 1,75 tall, thick lips, quite natural and very feminine. We connected quite good at a bit of a deeper level than just professional photography and took quite some nice pics, too. After that, her girl friend says goodbye and leaves for home, me and the singer to become go out and have a drink and a general chat. We meet up again with the singer, just me and her, we have another quite general chat for about 2 hours, I think the singer has a slight crush on me at least.

Important point, her girl friend tells me a couple of days ago she wants to go out and have a drink with me, together with singer friend, as a way of thanking me for the pics (I didn't charge her anything). I accept and say OK and I go for it, just that when I go to the bar, it is just this girl alone, waiting. She tells me her singer friend will be there a bit later and we stayed alone for about half an hour at least. We talked for different things and it was quite obvious this girl had a big crush on me, touching her hair, licking her lips, all the signs were there, it was hard to miss it. She is 20 and according to her words, she never had even a drink with a guy before. Whether this is true or not doesn't even matter, she was with a Muslim background and I can understand she didn't pay attention to guys in general since most of them are *******s anyways LOL so the friend comes, the singer, and she sits with us for about an hour, then leaves. I smelled she wanted to leave us alone and me and the other girl proceeded for about another 45 minutes completely alone and she was like so ready to be kissed her eyes were screaming it.

I did not kiss her and I will tell you I did good not to do that. First of all, I am quite interested to do business with her singer friend who apparently wants me to be her manager and her photographer, too. It is a very good opportunity and I do not want to miss out on this one. On the other hand, just as I had predicted and thought of, the singer had left us alone since she thought she "found the perfect dude for her best friend". I did not hurry my decision and I will not even further down the road since I think possible complications with her best friend would highly probably complicate my business relation with her, too. Question is, in this situation, what would you do? How do you judge this?
 
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The singer clearly made it clear she was giving the road to her friend (no matter the interest from her)

Personnally.... if you into the rural girl... go for it. It could be a great adventure for all 3 of you guys (the music, the photos, the road, the dating etc..)
If you take this road.... make it known you'll be in friendly professionnal mode with the singer

If you into the singer... well... don't play games... but truth and smooth

If you pursue a purely professionnal relationship with both... mention it and make it clear to both (while thanking them and acknowledging they are great girl but you do it business only)

In this field... not rare to see sex/business mix... they also in the dreamer age cycle (make it big, love, gogogo... you know the cycle)

Be adult about it (and accept they might not react like you want)

You know the drill: Pick and choose.

I would date the rural if you like her, do business with the singer and have adventures of a lifetime
 

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The singer is rural. The other girl is her best friend, she was born and raised in the capital city. See, the singer literally asked me tonight not to "hurt her friend" LOL I just met her for the second time ever.
 

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1. Don't over complicate things with group dates or outings.
2. Go for the girl you want, not the easy option.

There's no real issue here. You know what to do.
 
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