Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A Billionaire but still a Beta Chump

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When Elon Musk split up with wife, Talulah Riley, for the first time, he told the whole world.

"It was an amazing four years. I will love you forever," the entrepreneur Tweeted to the British actress in January 2012. "You will make someone very happy one day."



http://www.smh.com.au/digital-life/...s-to-give-her-20-million-20150101-12gq0m.html

I suppose a 19 million settlement 2nd time round is still chump change to this billionaire -- but this little known actress played it smart. Only got $4m first divorce, so married and divorced again for a pay rise.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was it Paul McCartney that paid through the nose? Elon got off easy...
 

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No Musk fan, but what we don't see here are the NDAs involved and other possible covenants which prevent her from selling all kind of scoop to tabloids and the like or writing a memoir, maybe for even more than 17 million over time. 5% interest on a billion is $50,000,000 a year, so he's paying her a pittance to keep her mouth shut in all likelihood. Well worth it from a PR standpoint for someone with those assets and a public company that could lose more than 17 million of market cap in an hour if certain disclosures were made about personal life or a scandal erupted. No idea whether he's a beta chump or not, but this settlement doesn't speak to that at all.
 

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Man this system pisses me off. How someone can just spread their legs and come away with a million dollars WHILE at the same time, they can collectively run around still bashing men, saying they are being oppressed, saying they don't earn as much as men, saying men are deadbeats, etc., etc.

And folks have the nerve to say, "Tenacity, getting married isn't all that bad..." Pffftttttt lol.
 

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dasein said:
No Musk fan, but what we don't see here are the NDAs involved and other possible covenants which prevent her from selling all kind of scoop to tabloids and the like or writing a memoir, maybe for even more than 17 million over time. 5% interest on a billion is $50,000,000 a year, so he's paying her a pittance to keep her mouth shut in all likelihood. Well worth it from a PR standpoint for someone with those assets and a public company that could lose more than 17 million of market cap in an hour if certain disclosures were made about personal life or a scandal erupted. No idea whether he's a beta chump or not, but this settlement doesn't speak to that at all.
Him marrying the same woman for a second time certainly does...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mangotot said:
sigh....what a dude!
Funny thing is, the guy is a billionaire, in his early 40's, looks younger than his age, in good physical shape...and he couldn't do better than some average-looking, third rate "actress". How sad. If you must marry a gold-digger, marry a hot one at least.
 

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The guy is a genius; one of those people that can mentally sit above above the system, take it for what it's worth and use to his advantage. He has billions at stake and needs to keep her happy and I imagine he was cringing when he wrote it


Zunder said:
When Elon Musk split up with wife, Talulah Riley, for the first time, he told the whole world.

"It was an amazing four years. I will love you forever," the entrepreneur Tweeted to the British actress in January 2012. "You will make someone very happy one day."



http://www.smh.com.au/digital-life/...s-to-give-her-20-million-20150101-12gq0m.html

I suppose a 19 million settlement 2nd time round is still chump change to this billionaire -- but this little known actress played it smart. Only got $4m first divorce, so married and divorced again for a pay rise.
 
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