"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A big IOI that I don´t remember seeing on pickup advice

JdelaSilviera

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While there are lots of IOI´s that are very ambiguous like the touching of the hair that can mean nothing. There is one that I think really shows that she has some level of interest: - She tries to put a kind of more serious look, and you see that she is adjusting the facial expression to look more pretty. Many women don´t like their smiles, so they very often try to put a serious, seductive look, adjusting their eyes and their mouth... Or she pretend to be looking at the horizon knowin you are staring at, and she is trying to do her best face. Of course I don´t mean a bored look, if you have seen this you recognize what im saying.

Probably many here have already noticed this.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bigneil

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Do you mean the Vogue face pose where they look diagonally and watch you out of the corner of their eye? That is a good one. You get that when they see you in the elevator or train. The really pretty ones can mesmerize you for a moment.
 

JdelaSilviera

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Exactly Bigneil, or when they are listening to you, and you can notice they are adjusting their face.
 

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I know what you're talking about, first time I got that look I was thinking like "did I just walk into a photo shoot or something? What's with that face all the sudden?"
 

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Ah, my ex did that right before the first time I kissed her. Drove me nuts! It just made it seem like she was begging for it.

Definitely agree with you that this is a big IOI, and possibly one of the best.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's even better when they look you in the eye and pose that way when they first see you.

Either way, time to ask them out the next time you see them.
 
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