"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A big day for myself and my GF!!!

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Well, today is V-day, the first V-day I have ever had a GF, now thats a first for myself. Second today my gf and I have been going out 1 month. Now that don't sound like much but this is the longest gf I have ever had and I have you to thank. I only got to see my gf for a few minutes before school and havn't seen her since. I hope to see her skating tonight and I will give her the stuff I got her then. I got her a card and a little stuffed gorilla that says love on the front. I just really wanted to tell you thanks for all the help and support you gave me and if I need anything else I will surely be back. Also I will try to stop in from time to time to help out the others. Later, Kegger:cool:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeh I am glad you guys have been here for me and a word to all you newbies, it may take time and you might want to give up but don't because it will finally happen. Also I learned looks and age are not everything, what matters is if you happy. Just keep working on it!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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