"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ok so theres this girl that i was interested in but not soooo much and shes kinda cool but i havent been doing much about it with her. I was thinking itd be cool to date her for the summer till she went to college. Now this guy i know says even tho shes like 17 she just dates or tries to date early to mid 20's. im 17, he says theres no way i could get a date with her.

She'd go out with me but no real dating or dates kinda deal. I think i might be able too. Ive been to her house several times for like hanging out with a bunch of people. So i met her a feew months ago but only kinda known her for like a month and see her 4-5 times but were comfortable with each other. I wanna know the best way to do this haha, i havent really done any CF or kino or anything . the closest to anyhting was in a text tonight she asked if i was coming over and i said "sorry sweetie. I know your missing me"
then when i was at her house she had this belt and was like "i thought you werent coming lol *hits me with belt*"

Im like oh baby :p she just whipped me, you can keep doing it if you want. thats all lol so im going to read some speed seduction in the DJ bible but im not sure that stuff will work since i didnt just meet her
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Depending on what state you're in, those mid-20s dudes better be careful with a 17-year-old girl.

It sounds like her IL is at least moderately high. Next time you get her alone, swing for the fences and make a move. Like you said in your post, it's just a summer thing - what do you have to lose?
 
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by the way doing an illegal is 20 years in prison. My friend's friend is in jail.
 
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age of consent is 16 here. i actually am competing with a 24 year old, but hes seems like a chode. dude i know actually brought me up with her tho and she said something about not even having thought dating me cuz im too young. lol we were born within months of each other. So i think im gonna have to do something drastic
 
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Teh_Wolf said:
age of consent is 16 here.
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Lucky S.O.B.

I leave my neighborhood pool with blue balls every time I go. Damned teenage lifeguards...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol. Maybe I should qualify her, maybe I should tell her I only date girls in their early 20's lol
 
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