A benefit of a girlfriend over a one night stand

[The Truth]

The other day I went round my girlfriend's place to help lay a patio in her garden. It was a tough day and at one point the voices of sosuave started entering my head and I began to feel like a bit of a chump.

However, after the work was done my girlfriend and I was chatting and she asked me to share some of my dress up fantasies. The topic of conversation changed, then when I left she thanked me for my help with the patio and said she'd make it upto me.

So I went round tonight and she asked me to wait downstairs while she got changed. When she returned, she was dressed up as a cowgirl!! :rockon: Yep, that's my fantasy and I almost busted just at the sight of her. We went at it like rabbits and I had the best sex I can remember. I'm still shaking and getting aroused thinking about it. :yes:

It occurred to me that this is the kind of thing partners in a relationship can discuss and act out. Likewise, you can talk to each other and experiment with what turns you on, gets you off, and what generally works for you sexually. These are things that you discuss when you are comfortable with someone, but are not brought up or fulfilled during one night stands or flings.

 

[Hitman10000]

Yeah that's nice, Keyboard Jockey.

 

[The Truth]

Yeah that's nice, Keyboard Jockey.

Keyboard jockey, me? I was having sex with a hot girl in a cowgirl costume just 3 hours ago and nowhere near a keyboard. But I don't have anything to prove, I was just making a point about relationships.

 

[( . )( . )]

Sex as your reward, your idea of her "paying you back" and your happy as a pig in sh!t.

What a weak ass and clueless mentality.

Oh and while I'm here not that this will mean sh!t to you, but you can get a chick to do all that stuff for you without being her "borefriend".:crazy: sounds zany doesnt it?

 

[Oxide]

I don't care how many chicks I've fooled around with.. having someone who loves you is a great feeling. Of course you have pros and cons, I'm just sayin..

 

[Kurt the KJ]

The other day I went round my girlfriend's place to help lay a patio in her garden. It was a tough day and at one point the voices of sosuave started entering my head and I began to feel like a bit of a chump.

However, after the work was done my girlfriend and I was chatting and she asked me to share some of my dress up fantasies. The topic of conversation changed, then when I left she thanked me for my help with the patio and said she'd make it upto me.

So I went round tonight and she asked me to wait downstairs while she got changed. When she returned, she was dressed up as a cowgirl!! :rockon: Yep, that's my fantasy and I almost busted just at the sight of her. We went at it like rabbits and I had the best sex I can remember. I'm still shaking and getting aroused thinking about it. :yes:

It occurred to me that this is the kind of thing partners in a relationship can discuss and act out. Likewise, you can talk to each other and experiment with what turns you on, gets you off, and what generally works for you sexually. These are things that you discuss when you are comfortable with someone, but are not brought up or fulfilled during one night stands or flings.

Silly rabbit, that's what fvck buddies are for!

:yes: :moon: :flowers: :crackup: :cheer:

 

[The Truth]

Sex as your reward, your idea of her "paying you back" and your happy as a pig in sh!t.

What a weak ass and clueless mentality.

It wasn't sex as my reward. We have sex all the time. She just wanted to do something extra special for me because I'd done something for her. She could have cooked me a nice dinner, given me money or bought me a present, but she went out and bought a cowgirl outfit instead.

Anyway, I knew you would find some negative in there, you pathetic whiny little moron! You say I have a weak mentality when all you do is f*cking moan and b!tch like a bitter old man who never gets his way in life. You are pitiful! And at the end of the day, I just had a fantasy fulfilled so do you really think your opinion is going to make me regret it? Get a life loser!

 

[SamePendo]

It wasn't sex as my reward. We have sex all the time. She just wanted to do something extra special for me because I'd done something for her. She could have cooked me a nice dinner, given me money or bought me a present, but she went out and bought a cowgirl outfit instead.

Anyway, I knew you would find some negative in there, you pathetic whiny little moron! You say I have a weak mentality when all you do is f*cking moan and b!tch like a bitter old man who never gets his way in life. You are pitiful! And at the end of the day, I just had a fantasy fulfilled so do you really think your opinion is going to make me regret it? Get a life loser!

( . )( . ): see what you did? you pissed her! you should know better!

. . . last 3 "dates" I've been on and I havent payed a cent, and haven't done anything "special" for her to "do something extra special for me because I'd done something for her". And I'm not their borefriend. :crackup:

 

[( . )( . )]

( . )( . ): see what you did? you pissed her! you should know better!

lol sheesh she did get a little angry that time :box: . Even the guy exposing its K.J theories got off lighter.

Mehh who cares. What am I pissing off anyway? a puppy dog excited over its latest reward, honestly why should a guy with half a clue have to read this AFC diseased sh!t here?, and dont give me that "ignore" function option, shouldnt be here in the first place.

""Become monogamous like me and you too can get sex as a reward, I'm sooo lucky"".

edit: even the title of this self limiting depressing twaddle speaks volumes:

A benefit of a girlfriend over a one night stand

Notice in his/her world its either one or the other. GF or ONS. To contemplate anything inbetween just doesnt exist to it. As if having a " girlfriend" is the only way chicks will do something nice for you, thats just sad in my opinion and reeks of low self worth.

 

[The Truth]

lol sheesh she did get a little angry that time :box: . Even the guy exposing its K.J theories got off lighter.

I didn't get pissed. You're the one who's always throwing insults around, I thought I'd throw a few back, idiot.

""Become monogamous like me and you too can get sex as a reward, I'm sooo lucky"".

Duh! You totally didn't get the point! I was talking about comfort levels and being able to discuss fantasies and explore your sexuality. Dunce!

Notice in his/her world its either one or the other. GF or ONS. To contemplate anything inbetween just doesnt exist to it. As if having a " girlfriend" is the only way chicks will do something nice for you, thats just sad in my opinion and reeks of low self worth.

Who said anything about one or the other? I said it's a benefit that you don't get from ONS or flings.

Your problem dude is that when you read things, you run it through your negativity filter and try to find faults. You could read all my posts and think "relationships aren't for me, but this guy is happy and fulfilled" but instead you just want to criticise and draw negativity out of the situation.

You poor pitiful man.

 

[SamePendo]

Who said anything about one or the other? I said it's a benefit that you don't get from ONS or flings.

. . .

Silly rabbit, that's what fvck buddies are for!

:yes: :moon: :flowers: :crackup: :cheer:

 

[PRMoon]

While I understand where you're coming from, I have to say the only reason you're saying something like this is because that is what YOU want. I like ONS's because of the adventure behind them. You have the mystery of not knowing if you're going to get anything at all and when you meet a girl or in some cases set of girls understanding what to do at exactly the right moment, how not to scare them off etc etc the one night stand is a mini adventure that's wrapped up into one night. Hell, even when I don't get any from a girl while going out trying to attempt the ONS I still have a lot of fun in the attempts and the majority of the time would rather spend my evening looking for a girl to try to bring home then cop out and have one waiting on me hand and foot dressing up for me whenever I please. This is because that's MY mentality and is what I prefer doing with my time. I hope that clears that up.

 

[The Truth]

While I understand where you're coming from, I have to say the only reason you're saying something like this is because that is what YOU want. I like ONS's because of the adventure behind them.

You see, I can understand and appreciate what you are saying. It does not work that way for me, but I'm not going to preach my ideals as right and yours as wrong because for you this is a benefit from ONS that you cannot get from relationships.

Nice to see someone is capable of a civilized response and a rational argument by the way.

 

[Trapper]

you did good gob man..